To leave dh alone with the baby all day tomorrow without telling him

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Dh has gone to sleep in the spare room after our argument tonight, which I have told him I hate!

To top it off, this now means he gets a lovely nights sleep & I am left to do night feeds alone!!!

Im honestly thinking tomorrow i will take our other ds to school, then swan off to the shops or somewhere, leaving him with the baby & not telling him.

I am fully aware this is probably a childish response but this is just where I'm at.

Do it? Or don't do it?

I would certainly leave a note for him, "Going out. Baby has been fed at (time). Back later."

What you do NOT want is for him to wake up and wander off while the baby is sleeping, not knowing that he is in charge.

Ok. He slept in the other room, which you hate. What did you do that HE hates?

Next time slink off to the spare room yourself 1st

I would go out and leave a note saying you are still upset about last night and need a wee bit of space to clear your head so you won't be home after the school run. That yer taking the day to do just that and will be home by <<insert time>>. Also say you would appreciate if he gave you this time to clear yer head without any further upset between you. Everyone needs some time to realign themselves, it's not unreasonable in anyway and may show him that you are really hurt (what ever it is you are feeling), actions speak louder than words after all