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England Taking The Knee

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JimmyKrankie · 21/11/2022 14:05

Thoughts on the team taking the knee??

I'm in no way racist, I don't care what colour someone's skin is, I have and always will judge people as people, but this really gets to me and I don't agree with the whole knee thing.

What do you think?

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Bookworm20 · 21/11/2022 15:25

MamMedusa · 21/11/2022 15:00

I have no issue with them taking the knee however I feel it's incredibly hypocritical that this show of solidarity is deemed acceptable (as it should be) yet any support shown for LGBTQ teammates would be met with fines and disciplinary action.

I do hope the focus this match will be on the Iranian teams show of protest during their anthem though.

This.

girlmom21 · 21/11/2022 15:30

I have a very multi cultural family - I'm in no way racist

Another token comment thrown around by racists and bigots.

They're taking the knee because they're standing against racism. Their teammates get racially abused regularly when they're playing football, and probably when they're not.

Racism has no place in football.

Tackling racism doesn't mean they don't support gay rights or womens rights, but taking the knee isn't going to get them arrested. They're footballers, not activists. To expect them to sacrifice their freedom is unfair. They have families and lives too.

Jeweleyedjudy · 21/11/2022 15:32

The only occasion where I would 'take the knee' would be to Almighty God, but as I'm not religious, I won't take it for anyone, regardless or race/culture. Virtue signalling at its very finest 🙄

CapMarvel · 21/11/2022 15:40

When the virtue in question is "let's not be racist pricks, eh?" I fail to see why anyone who isn't racist would have an issue with it being signalled to be honest.

I mean, at worst it's a bit of an empty gesture but it's not hurting anyone, is it?

IcedPurple · 21/11/2022 15:43

I wouldn't say it bothers me but I do think it's very much 'going through the motions' at this point. Plus, as others have said, it's clearly a 'safe' gesture in the sense that they know it's 'approved' by FIFA and won't lead to any negative consequences. It doesn't do harm, but I'm not sure it does much good either.

ginghamstarfish · 21/11/2022 15:47

Don't like it, smacks of virtue signalling. Also implies that if you don't do this then you are pro-racism, which is clearly nonsense. It's had its moment.

Mrsjayy · 21/11/2022 15:49

Not taking the knee doesn't say you are pro racism at all!

Hont1986 · 21/11/2022 15:53

I don't mind a symbolic act of protest against the state of the country, because frankly I don't know anyone who thinks this country is in a good state at the moment.

But I do wish they had found a home-grown way of doing it - copying the 'take a knee' thing from it's American context just didn't translate here - we don't have the same kind of racial problems that they do over there. And they also don't do it during the national anthem, which is kind of the whole point.

Overall it comes off like they are vaguely protesting something but it isn't clear exactly what it is, or what they want.

girlmom21 · 21/11/2022 15:54

Mrsjayy · 21/11/2022 15:49

Not taking the knee doesn't say you are pro racism at all!

Not taking the knee is fine. Being uncomfortable with someone else's decision to take the knee is strange.

Hobbi · 21/11/2022 15:54

TheNoonBell · 21/11/2022 14:19

The argument seems to be:

If you don't agree with burning witches you must be a witch.

No, the argument is more, 'if you object to people who are trying to stop witches being burned, you might be part of the problem.'

Hobbi · 21/11/2022 15:57

SummaLuvin · 21/11/2022 14:33

Kneeling is an act of subservience- why should our footballers do that?

I think the origin story of taking the knee is in NCAA football, where they play the US national anthem before every match. A player took the knee during the anthem as a visible protest - refusing to stand and show respect for an anthem when he felt his life was not respected and protected in the country.

It predates that. It goes back at least to the civil rights movement and MLK.

Cuppasoupmonster · 21/11/2022 15:57

PAFMO · 21/11/2022 14:07

What is it about a symbolic act against racism that upsets someone who is "in no way racist".

Just asking.

I’m not racist. I wouldn’t ‘take a knee’ if asked. I don’t like these public, uniform displays of meaningless gestures. Not just because it’s essentially meaningless but because it becomes something you’re compelled to do, else you’ll look racist/homophobic/sexist/whatever. I don’t believe you should be able to be accused of any of those things by omission, which is what this is turning into.

TheNoonBell · 21/11/2022 15:59

Mrsjayy · 21/11/2022 15:49

Not taking the knee doesn't say you are pro racism at all!

It does according to the new puritans.

If you don't 100% go along with whatever their current demand is you are considered the embodiment of all that is evil (and must be destroyed).

SeasonFinale · 21/11/2022 16:00

Any time a sentence starts with I am in no way racist/I'm not racist generally comes before saying something that is. 🤔 And if someone else taking the knee really gets to you - then you are.

Cuppasoupmonster · 21/11/2022 16:01

TheNoonBell · 21/11/2022 15:59

It does according to the new puritans.

If you don't 100% go along with whatever their current demand is you are considered the embodiment of all that is evil (and must be destroyed).

Yep. It’s like email pronouns. It becomes a social contagion that means you can make assumptions about people who dont do it rather than people that do, and that is what makes me uncomfortable.

Hont1986 · 21/11/2022 16:02

It predates that. It goes back at least to the civil rights movement and MLK.

No, the current stuff about taking a knee in sport stems specifically from Colin Kaepernick in the NFL American football league.

radho · 21/11/2022 16:02

I'm not against taking the knee per se. But I do find it odd that this gesture is allowed but other political gestures aren't. So a footballer who wants to make a public statement on the pitch against, let's say, organised crime or femicide or antisemitism, would not be allowed to do so. I guess FIFA considers this particular gesture "safe" and relatively uncontroversial so it is allowed.

JudgeJ · 21/11/2022 16:03

PAFMO · 21/11/2022 14:07

What is it about a symbolic act against racism that upsets someone who is "in no way racist".

Just asking.

It's not a 'symbolic act against racism', it's gesture politics forced onto society to show how right-on you are and if you don't do it you're the baddy.

MollytheTrolleyDolly · 21/11/2022 16:04

Why can't we discuss differences of opinion without accusations of "bigot" or "racist" being hurled.

MassiveSaladWithChristmasTrimmings · 21/11/2022 16:04

I suppose if they were kneeling to the people who died building the stadium, it might-just-be ok. Otherwise, it's a load of old shite.

JudgeJ · 21/11/2022 16:04

carefulcalculator · 21/11/2022 14:11

Biscuit for your faux naivity.

I assume you believe in people being free to have their own views? In which case, it is nothing to do with you how someone else chooses to express themselves.

And you can carry on disagreeing with their anti-racist position, that's your right.

But people not following this fad are automatically deemed 'racist' because they'er not following the herd.

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JudgeJ · 21/11/2022 16:06

TheNoonBell · 21/11/2022 14:19

The argument seems to be:

If you don't agree with burning witches you must be a witch.

Totally true but it won't be a popular interpretation!

JudgeJ · 21/11/2022 16:07

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Thus replied the sanctimonious person, agree with me or you're wrong!