So 100% appreciate that all kids are different but I’m constantly baffled at people putting their kids to bed at 6.30 or thereabouts and then complaining they’re being woken up. Of course they’re waking up - they have been asleep for hours and they’re hungry.
My 3 month old goes to bed with us (having had various naps throughout the day) around midnight and doesn’t wake until 8. I appreciate I’m very lucky that he sleeps for the full 8, but if I put him to bed at 6 he’d be up at 2am and wide awake for hours.
I work full time and take the morning feeds whilst DP is on mat leave and does the days. Our tiredness extends to the fact that there’s a whole person to take care of on top of what we were doing before, and have no family or additional paid support, but not sleep deprivation.
Obviously some people have other commitments (night shifts etc) and some kids just don’t sleep, but a lot of the new parents I know in similar circumstances to me seem to be at their wit’s end because, as far as I can tell, they’re putting their baby to bed too early! It often sounds like they’re forcing it too, like the baby doesn’t want to sleep then anyway. Confused!
AIBU?
AIBU to wonder why people are putting their kids to bed so early
Tukmgru · 20/11/2022 22:43
Am I being unreasonable?
2294 votes. Final results.
POLLOctober2020 · 20/11/2022 22:45
Just checking, you're giving out parenting advice based on your experience of... 3 months?
Fwiw my daughter goes up at 7 for sleep at 8, but I wouldn't be bold enough to suggest to anyone else that that's the right way to do it...!!
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October2020 · 20/11/2022 22:45
Just checking, you're giving out parenting advice based on your experience of... 3 months?
Fwiw my daughter goes up at 7 for sleep at 8, but I wouldn't be bold enough to suggest to anyone else that that's the right way to do it...!!
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