I am leaving them alone - I’m hardly going up to them and demanding they to answer to me. 
This is a discussion forum. People raise issues, other people come back and question things. It’s how it works.
I’m not calling anyone ‘stupid’ or saying it’s a ‘character failing’. Those are your words, interestingly enough.
I’m questioning the system, society. I’m not blaming individuals - I’m looking at the much bigger picture, which makes girls think they’re just there to be looked at, while the men run everything.
It’s OK to question this - it really is. And I do realise it’s ‘just a dress’, before I get jumped on for that!
Bit it’s ‘just a dress’. And it’s also very much not ‘just a dress’.