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To ask who the hell goes to a prom dressed like this?

272 replies

KimberleyClark · 19/10/2022 15:29

www.facebook.com/marketplace/item/452679109983229/

Unbelievable.

OP posts:
sandytooth · 19/10/2022 19:29

VladmirsPoutine · 19/10/2022 18:18

Is this a dress you've placed for listing but feel a bit miffed it hasn't had much interest?

Ha! Maybe

WhileMyGuitarGentlyWeeps · 19/10/2022 19:32

Agree. It's hideous. For a prom or NOT for a prom.

Looks like something you'd wear to make a porn film.

SmileyClare · 19/10/2022 19:34

I was expecting a lot worse

In what way? It exposes part of a naked arse, It’s short enough to reveal no knickers and the front drapes low enough to see a whole breast, the netting part is a nod to sexual fetish wear.
People are saying this is suitable for a 16 year old to wear and she should be applauded for wearing it? What?

StickofVeg · 19/10/2022 19:37

I've seen worse being worn on the street when I pick my son up from his late night shift!

NotVeryHopefulBeenHereB4 · 19/10/2022 19:38

I think it's dreadful looking, for a prom, nightclub or anywhere else. Why do so many young women want to flash their body parts these days?

Bangolads · 19/10/2022 19:40

If she was taking her child to nursery I might raise an eyebrow but who cares it’s a prom. I think more to the point why do you care so much?

StupidSmallFruit · 19/10/2022 19:43

SmileyClare · 19/10/2022 19:34

I was expecting a lot worse

In what way? It exposes part of a naked arse, It’s short enough to reveal no knickers and the front drapes low enough to see a whole breast, the netting part is a nod to sexual fetish wear.
People are saying this is suitable for a 16 year old to wear and she should be applauded for wearing it? What?

Right?

People rush to be disingenuous on threads like this.

Like I said upthread, every photo of girls I’ve seen, across multiple countries, heading off to proms/balls/leavers’ dances is wearing a dress like the green one posted by the OP, and described as ‘frumpy’ by the disingenuatti.

I agree it’s far more likely a load of key words have been thrown at it, to get more views. It’s not actually a prom dress.

VestaTilley · 19/10/2022 19:43

In the ten years or so since I stopped going clubbing the world has become so horrifically pornified.

I can’t believe people think that’s a suitable way for anybody to dress.

FlirtyMelons · 19/10/2022 19:51

I was going clubbing a lot longer than 10 years ago and people have been wearing stuff like that for years

FlirtyMelons · 19/10/2022 19:54

KimberleyClark · 19/10/2022 17:42

On the other hand, I think wearing long dresses for proms is old-fashioned and makes girls look a bit frumpy.

I don’t think something like this is frumpy at all. It’s a shame if girls think that anything not super revealing is by definition frumpy.

I am 42 and I think this is frumpy for my age let alone a 16 yo. There are tonnes of gorgeous prom dresses out there that are lovely, they don't have to be high necked to be appropriate for 16 yos.

ReneBumsWombats · 19/10/2022 19:55

FlirtyMelons · 19/10/2022 19:51

I was going clubbing a lot longer than 10 years ago and people have been wearing stuff like that for years

Yeah, me too. I never wore anything like that (never had the figure for it) but I wore corsets, tops that laced up at the sides and things artfully full of holes. It depended on where you went but I've definitely seen stuff like this before.

I've also been to fetish/swinger clubs.

WhileMyGuitarGentlyWeeps · 19/10/2022 19:56

NotVeryHopefulBeenHereB4 · 19/10/2022 19:38

I think it's dreadful looking, for a prom, nightclub or anywhere else. Why do so many young women want to flash their body parts these days?

I don't know, but it's not a good look. You don't see men going out on a night time in a string vest and a thong. Or skin tight see-through jeggings and nipple tassles.

Yet THIS kind of look is promoted for young women right now. I am no prude, but I think they all look fucking hideous The 'dresses' are minging and the women look dreadful. The saying 'less is more' springs to mind.

I noticed on Love Island this year that some of the young women on there were wearing dresses that only covered about a third of their breasts. Virtually only the nipples were covered sometimes. And the length was about an inch or two below their labia.

As I say, I am not a prude, and I have worn many a mini skirt in my day (got a good pair of pins on me!) but the length was 3-6" above my knee, not 1-2" below my labia. Utterly grim. This kind of look suits NO-ONE.

Here's a few ghastly examples of 'fashion' for young women right now. They clearly think they look 'sexy.' They don't!

sandytooth · 19/10/2022 19:56

I'd love to look good in something like that but I wouldn't. Someone will though.

pinkyredrose · 19/10/2022 19:56

LapinR0se · 19/10/2022 17:33

If I wore that I’d look like a raw sausage stuck in a fishing line

😂

SmileyClare · 19/10/2022 19:57

No it’s disingenuous to say “ loads of key words are thrown in” to get views. The key words are designed to attract someone searching for “womens, evening dress, party,prom” they’re not random words otherwise you’d see “wedding, work wear, funeral dress, menswear” or whatever.

key words are targeted to an audience of assumed potential buyers.

Ohsugarhoneyicetea · 19/10/2022 19:58

Someone looking for a career as wank fodder on only fans.

ReneBumsWombats · 19/10/2022 20:00

WhileMyGuitarGentlyWeeps · 19/10/2022 19:56

I don't know, but it's not a good look. You don't see men going out on a night time in a string vest and a thong. Or skin tight see-through jeggings and nipple tassles.

Yet THIS kind of look is promoted for young women right now. I am no prude, but I think they all look fucking hideous The 'dresses' are minging and the women look dreadful. The saying 'less is more' springs to mind.

I noticed on Love Island this year that some of the young women on there were wearing dresses that only covered about a third of their breasts. Virtually only the nipples were covered sometimes. And the length was about an inch or two below their labia.

As I say, I am not a prude, and I have worn many a mini skirt in my day (got a good pair of pins on me!) but the length was 3-6" above my knee, not 1-2" below my labia. Utterly grim. This kind of look suits NO-ONE.

Here's a few ghastly examples of 'fashion' for young women right now. They clearly think they look 'sexy.' They don't!

One of those women is Kim Kardashian. She's about to turn 42. Are young women of typical prom/clubbing age really going to be influenced by her?

orangeisthenewpuce · 19/10/2022 20:01

Someone whose parents don't know she's wearing it I hope.

jewishmum · 19/10/2022 20:01

It's the whole 'empowering women and girls to dress as bare as they like (because it's men at fault)' and other people's dirty minds, not their clothes. Lol

user1498572889 · 19/10/2022 20:03

@BigFatLiar
😂😂

tillyandmilly · 19/10/2022 20:04

looks like one of those katrashians ! Sorry this looks totally inappropriate fir a prom - what message is this sending out exposing all your bits?

jewishmum · 19/10/2022 20:04

orangeisthenewpuce · 19/10/2022 20:01

Someone whose parents don't know she's wearing it I hope.

With some parents of today they probably told her she looks stunning!

ThreeblackCats · 19/10/2022 20:04

“Who the hell wears a dress like this to prom”. I think someone with a figure like the girl modelling it!
Keep those judgy knickers hoiked up @KimberleyClark keep throwing out the insults, it’s people with such a judgemental attitude like you, that really do have issues. Not people wearing dresses you don’t approve.

maybe try moving to North Korea or Iran if you want everyone to only wear approved clothing.

id have worn something like that when I was in my teens and twenties. I guess you’re more a twinset and pearls kind of gal eh?

Stravaig · 19/10/2022 20:05

Is that 'prom' as in promenade through the red light district soliciting clients?

BadNomad · 19/10/2022 20:06

Slim girls. That dress wouldn't get past my ankles and my baps would get too cold hanging out under my armpits. 😭

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