To not change the bed sheets immediately…

[DoreensEatingHerSoreen]

... because they have a small amount of dried blood on them as my dog is in season.

My partner was furious when he realised that my Shih Tzu had left a small amount of period blood on our bedsheets. (Two dried spots, one the size of a 50p, one the size of a 20p). I was already in bed, tired having retuned from a week working away, and in the first few weeks of pregnancy.

Parter demanded that the sheets should be changed immediately, I said it would be fine til the morning, but if he wanted them changing that badly he should do it himself.

For context the dog is mine, I've had her since before we met and moved in together.

Not sure if I've set up voting or not but ...

YANBU - it's a small amount of dried blood, the sheets can be changed later or he can do it himself

YABU - that's gross, it's your dog, you should change the sheets immediately

This wouldn't bother me but my OH would be stripping the bed in his flamboyant manner. Never quite sure if he's changing the sheets or dancing flamenco.

I wouldn't have pets on the bed any way but especially not while in season.

I would have changed the sheets for that and banned the dog going forward.

Truly awful. Change the sheets.

YABU.

Eww

YABU- that’s so gross 🤢 🤮 I can’t believe you even have to ask whether people want to sleep with dog’s period blood. Not OK @DoreensEatingHerSoreen

I would not want to sleep on stained sheets, but I don’t agree with your partner kicking off like that.

So gross. She’s your dog. You should have changed the sheets.

When I have been exhausted I have slept in period blood, baby wee and sick and all sorts.
I used to just shove a towel over it or sorted it in the morning.

However, I wouldn’t want anyone else sleeping in it.
At the very least I would have just taken the sheet off and replaced it in the morning.

If I was him I would have offered to do it myself though.

Even a clean, well-cared-for dog can pick up parasites like fleas, ticks, and even mites. And those tiny pests aren’t above feasting on humans. Dogs can also transfer intestinal parasites like ringworm to their human companions

i hope your baby doesn’t develop allergies/hayfever. Pollen on dog fur agrivates this and if you’re too tired now you’ll be too tired to brush the dog out before bedtime after the baby arrives.

selfish.

Duvet cover I’d leave until morning unless near my face. Sheets I’d change that night, ditto pillows. I don’t let my dogs on my bed though and would probably be more worried about hair in the bed as I can’t stand pet hairs in bed rooms.

That is absolutely vile. And get your damn dog spayed!

Having dogs in your bed is gross full stop.

I bet she's one of these people who kisses her dog full tongues too 🤢

Thank goodness. I was beginning to think the whole world's population had changed into drama llamas. At least there's still some sane people out there!

Hard to judge on this one my dog sleeps in the bed. It gets a bit minging with the hair but worth it for the cuddles. If he wants them changed fine but he can do it?

This can't be real. Ewwww

Why the hell isn't your dog spayed??

I'm still wanting to know how long it had been there considering DH had been in charge for a week.

🤢

You are unreasonable for:

• Letting your dog in the bed that you share with your husband.
• Not changing the bedclothes immediately your dog soiled them.
• Being disrespectful towards your husband who is (presumably) prepared to tolerate your dog in his bed as long as it's not soiling the sheets with menstrual blood 🤢🤢🤮.

I'm not a particularly fussy person (we change our bed clothes every 10-14 days, which I know some people don't think is often enough), but I really think you need to consider your husband's reasonable distaste for dogiferous bed sheets.

Revolting

No. Most dog owners allow their bitches some dignity. Insane idea.

@AnwenDolly you admit to only cleaning your bedsheets every two weeks?

Eeww grim vile why aren't you spayed? Eeww grim vile why aren't you spayed? Rinse and repeat.

Calm down, dear. Once every couple of weeks is fine.