Am I just a wuss?

[DownAtTheBodyShop]

Our bedroom is set-up so that if you’re lying on the bed, the en-suite is to your left, and the bedroom door is to your right.

Last night, I went to bed first and decided I’d sleep on the right.

DH came up a little while later and we started watching a movie that was quite scary. When we finished, I was unnerved and asked DH to swap sides so that he could as nearer the door and could save me from approaching slasher killers.

He laughed, told me I was being silly and our rules are whoever is first to bed gets to choose the side so I needed to suck it up, and he was already comfortable and starting to snooze.

Yabu for not already having a specific side 🤣

I think I'm a wuss because I could not live with not having my own side

You don't have sides? 😱

Just echoing ‘who doesn’t have sides?!’

Such anarchy exists in the world? YABU for now giving me nightmares

This sounds like a chaotic household. No sides?!

So odd you don’t have your own side!

And no if he was nodding off it was a bit much to expect him to move.

You don’t have your own sides? I’m literally crying and shaking here with the triggering.

How do you not have a side?!?!

This is so odd, What do you mean you dont have sides? Which bedside table to you keep your vibrator?

I hope you kept your toes under the covers to prevent monsters eating them.

YOU SWITCH SIDES???????

How can you not have sides? 😲
Sides count even on holiday.

I don’t have a vibrator (no issue with them, they just never felt nicer than the real thing!)

Also don’t have bedside drawers 😳

I still sleep on the same side of the bed when DH isn't even in it. Very bizarre behaviour OP

Your bed must be so uncomfortable with all that shifting about and not letting it settle to the shape of your body.

No sides?????

You need a designated side!! Mine is the one furthest from the door, for similar reason to yourself

No sides, Jesus Christ!

And get rid of the tv?

I think anyone who broke in and found out you CHANGE SIDES would be more scared by you. That is psychopathic behaviour 😲

Choose a side and stick with it. Get rid of tv in bedroom

I also got to the part of your story where you mentioned deciding which side to sleep on that night and froze and re read and reread, still isn't computing

No sides - Anarchists.

It's deeply perverse not to have set sides already. Properly, properly weird.