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AIBU?

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Embarrassed in Wilkinson's ...aibu?

160 replies

cursethenroomstick · 08/10/2022 10:54

My house I rent through housing association.
I work full time and pay my rent myself,don't claim benefits (not that anything is wrong with that,I just know people can be a bit judgemental)
Anyway my housing association did some works on my house and made such a mess.
Anyway I was given decorating vouchers to use in wilkos.
On my letter from HA it states paint,paper,soft furnishings ,rugs etc
So I got my paints etc and spotted a lovely little rug on sale for £15.
Got to the till she scanned my items and I said I was paying with my decorating card.
She snapped "you can't buy rugs it's for paint only"
I said I have my letter..she grabbed letter and scanned it
Then shouted over (whilst massive queue behind me)
You can't buy rugs can you with this free DSS voucher (not sure what DSS means ,maybe housing tenant?)
The woman on the other till said you could
She then shouts back "bloody hell thought it was just for paint ...rugs and rolled her eyes"

Aibu to think there's just no need ?
I felt so embarrassed
I pay for everything myself and the only reason I got these vouchers was because the HA made such a mess.
Im embarrassed to go back in there again now

OP posts:
Smilelesstalkmore · 08/10/2022 10:57

What an a-hole. I would complain purely out of spite!

As476 · 08/10/2022 10:58

Definitely send an email to head office or phone the store and ask to speak to a manager about it.

Wayohh · 08/10/2022 10:59

Complain. 100%

Judgemental idiot

KosherDill · 08/10/2022 11:00

Definitely complain.

You have nothing to be embarrassed over, but she does. Unfit to serve the public.

carrotsinthepan · 08/10/2022 11:02

What a bitch ! I can think of a good place to shove the rug

fizzyfood · 08/10/2022 11:03

I'd send a complaint letter to head office, it's very insensitive.

DrManhattan · 08/10/2022 11:04

She sounds like a horrible cow who hates her job

MrsBennetsPoorNerves · 08/10/2022 11:04

It doesn't actually matter whether you pay for everything yourself or not. It makes no difference.

I would complain. Her behaviour was unacceptable.

WyldeSwan · 08/10/2022 11:08

Where the voucher came from is somewhat irrelevant, it could have been a voucher in a leaflet, and she would still have been rude and unprofessional

Cw112 · 08/10/2022 11:09

Yup I'd complain, that's very unprofessional

Dogmatix34 · 08/10/2022 11:10

Definitely complain! I nearly always say don’t complain but that what really nasty and needs to be dealt with

TimeToGoUpAGear · 08/10/2022 11:10

I totally agree. Complain strongly.

GlassDeli · 08/10/2022 11:11

Complain! Who does she think she is?

Trinity65 · 08/10/2022 11:13

I echo what everyone else has said.

What a Bitch

SilverPeacock · 08/10/2022 11:14

DSS stood for Department of Social Security back in the day. You should complain about it I agree.

girlfriend44 · 08/10/2022 11:16

You should have asked to see the manager at the time. Why do ppl walk away and ask strangers.

saraclara · 08/10/2022 11:16

Absolutely complain. To the manager and copy in the head office.

QueSyrahSyrah · 08/10/2022 11:18

I wouldn't just complain to Wilkos, I'd flag it to the housing association as well, as they issued the voucher and are providing business to a company whose staff do not sound worthy of or grateful for said business.

saraclara · 08/10/2022 11:18

girlfriend44 · 08/10/2022 11:16

You should have asked to see the manager at the time. Why do ppl walk away and ask strangers.

Because they're in shock, humiliated, and don't know what to do for the best.

We've all (apart from you, apparently) been there. When you're taken by surprise in an unusual situation, it's absolutely normal to only think after the fact, what you could have done.

Firecarrier · 08/10/2022 11:18

Sorry that happened, you should complain. Also, someone asked why you would walk away instead of complaining straight away, I would have thought that was quite obvious.

LakieLady · 08/10/2022 11:18

Absolutely complain! Wilko's need to know that they need to train their staff better, if nothing else.

What an appallingly tactless cow.

VyeBrator · 08/10/2022 11:20

"Snapped"
"Grabbed"
"Shouted"

If you can say that's honestly true then yes, report her.

nestofhill · 08/10/2022 11:20

I'd guess that DSS stood for department of social security.

I'm quite laid back but I'd complain about this. It's unfair to make people feel small and ashamed who have need to use these vouchers.

ChilliBandit · 08/10/2022 11:21

Another one saying to complain. I’ve seen cashiers shame people over the milk vouchers for children you used to get (not sure if you still can). Why do people feel the need to drag others down, the government do a good enough job of that by themselves.

mommybear1 · 08/10/2022 11:22

Complain.