Dh doesn't work on a Friday. He looks after the dcs, aged 1 and 4. I'm a part time teacher and work on a Friday. My alarm is set for 6.55am and dcs wake up naturally around then too.
Dh has got it in his head that he wants to get up early every morning to do a work out or go for a run. But at 5.30am this morning, his stupid loud alarm went off and woke me up and I couldn't get back to sleep.
I think this is really selfish and unfair of him. I'm the one with a demanding job today and need all the sleep I can get. Dc2 is still in our room and has an awful cough at the moment so that's made sleep difficult this week. And I've been struggling with anxiety badly too recently and obviously that has a knock on effect to sleep.
I told dh that he was being unfair but he said that I was awake anyway (absolutely not true) and that most people are up before I get up anyway. He's also just said hoe much better he feels for doing his exercise routine early this morning... that's great, but he won't be teaching thirty 5 year olds today! I feel so exhausted already.
Am I being totally unreasonable here?
AIBU?
Husband woke me up with 5.30 alarm so he could do a work out!
RooksAndRavens · 07/10/2022 07:20
hangryorhungry · 07/10/2022 07:23
Tricky one- my DH does this mostly to fit in exercise before full on work day.. it infuriates me more when he sets the alarm but then can't face doing the exercise so snoozes it for another hour - whilst I'm wide awake
Nizanb · 07/10/2022 08:18
How is he supposed to get up at the time he wants to in the morning without an alarm? I've never understood why people can't go back to sleep after waking up.
Nizanb · 07/10/2022 08:18
How is he supposed to get up at the time he wants to in the morning without an alarm? I've never understood why people can't go back to sleep after waking up.
Clymene · 07/10/2022 07:39
Because he has set a loud alarm that is likely to wake them all up @5zeds
It's the sort of behaviour men indulge in to punish their wives. And it's always men who have loud alarms. Women creep about if they have to get up early
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