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elm26 · 06/10/2022 23:21

I'm due to have a 6/7 week scan tomorrow after multiple miscarriages (double figures) and I've got period like cramps and bleeding.

I've been bleeding on and off for 2 weeks, no clots.

I feel so alone and I just want to cancel my scan in the morning. Time and time again I've sat in that waiting area, I've had to listen to the "I'm sorry" words, I've had to sit in the family room with a useless leaflet about miscarriage and a box of tissues.

I'm not religious but I could really do with some positive thoughts being put out there for me tonight, I'm not sure I can endure another loss 😢

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Wayk · 14/10/2022 20:13

You have a beautiful lovely baby growing inside of you and all will be good. Best wishes.

elm26 · 14/10/2022 20:40

I read your messages and just sob, you're all so kind and I'm so overwhelmed by the support ♥️

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PinkButtercups · 14/10/2022 22:16

So precious ♥️

Panjandrum123 · 15/10/2022 16:19

Brilliant @elm26 wishing you all the best 🌹🌻

Nongatron · 15/10/2022 16:42

@elm26 Just sending you the very best vibes for you and your sticky bean 💐

elm26 · 20/10/2022 21:55

I'm going to need all you lovely people to say those magic prayers or good wishes again because I've got another scan in the morning and I am absolutely petrified! 😭

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declutteringmymind · 20/10/2022 21:56

Sticky vibes!

Booklover3 · 20/10/2022 21:58

Sending positive vibes lovely x

bloodywhitecat · 20/10/2022 22:04

Sending positive things your way!

Purplebunnie · 20/10/2022 22:09

Positive vibes winging their way to you

Wynston · 20/10/2022 22:22

sending positive vibes xxx

PinkButtercups · 20/10/2022 22:26

Oh bless you. It won't be much reassurance but just remember the statistics once you see a heartbeat ♥️. It's a scary time isn't it.

Thinking and sending positive things your way x

Dancingqueenwannabe · 20/10/2022 22:41

Sending positive thoughts and huge hugs xxxx

mamabear715 · 20/10/2022 22:58

Magic prayers coming up, @elm26 x

Keira36 · 20/10/2022 23:23

Sending positivity and sticky vibes your way Flowers
Keep on thinking those positive thoughts. All the very best xx

washingbasketqueen · 20/10/2022 23:27

Lovely news! Sending lots of positivity!

DomPom47 · 20/10/2022 23:35

Sending healthy vibes, hope all goes well for you 💐

RainbowSlide · 20/10/2022 23:58

Good luck OP

LittleBrownRug · 21/10/2022 00:02

Best of luck for you and little one

HikingforScenery · 21/10/2022 00:02

Praying for you x

Blueeyedgirl21 · 21/10/2022 00:02

I had a bad miscarriage in June then got pregnant again in August and I literally have never felt nerves and anxiety like it before scans. Then the relief after is amazing. I have my baby now. It will happen for you. Every single scan I had the nerves it never leaves you but you can get through it, just focus on yourself and your baby, every day is another step closer. I found breathing in for 8 through the nose, out through the mouth for 12, really helpful. I’m sending you so many good vibes wherever you are.

Lonlov · 21/10/2022 00:08

Hand hold. I'm so sorry you're going through this xxxx

Lonlov · 21/10/2022 00:09

Sorry! I missed your updates. Brilliant news! I'm thrilled for you xxxx

Lonlov · 21/10/2022 00:10

Hope all goes well for your scan tomorrow. Got everything crossed for you!

Eeksteek · 21/10/2022 00:18

Then you shall have them. Good luck and hang in there little one. Your mum loves you a lot!

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