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To ask for a handhold I feel so alone

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elm26 · 06/10/2022 23:21

I'm due to have a 6/7 week scan tomorrow after multiple miscarriages (double figures) and I've got period like cramps and bleeding.

I've been bleeding on and off for 2 weeks, no clots.

I feel so alone and I just want to cancel my scan in the morning. Time and time again I've sat in that waiting area, I've had to listen to the "I'm sorry" words, I've had to sit in the family room with a useless leaflet about miscarriage and a box of tissues.

I'm not religious but I could really do with some positive thoughts being put out there for me tonight, I'm not sure I can endure another loss 😢

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Elderemo · 07/10/2022 13:40

That scan is amazing! I was just like you, multiple mc and bleeding before my early scan. My scan picture looked the same too, i called it little bean.

DD is nearly 7 now.

Wishing you all the best for the next few months and I hope your little bean stays healthy.

Wibbly1008 · 07/10/2022 13:42

I had similar to this, random bleeding for weeks that made my heart stop. This was after miscarriage too, so I was a bag of nerves. my dd is 6 now! I’m sending you all my good wishes OP, you and baby hang in there x

Goingforarun · 07/10/2022 15:39

Sleep well tonight

Ladylalaboo1 · 07/10/2022 15:41

elm26 · 07/10/2022 11:31

Thank you so much everyone, I can't even explain how much your messages, prayers, good thoughts, stories mean to me.

Somehow, against all the odds, baby has a heartbeat and everything looks good for now! Baby is tiny! X

Oh my gosh!!! I'm so so so happy!!! I've been thinking about you throughout the day Flowers hopefully you can try and get some nice rest today/ this evening! Nice cosy blanket, hot tea and early night is what you deserve !! Brew

2018SoFarSoGreat · 07/10/2022 15:41

Ah that's loveky news! I'm sio pleased for you.

bloodywhitecat · 07/10/2022 15:56

That is amazing news! I am so pleased for you

Foxylass · 07/10/2022 16:29

Wonderful update - get some rest x

Eeksteek · 07/10/2022 19:47

Yay! Hang in there little one, you mum is excited to meet you. I’m so glad, and I really hope its all smooth sailing from now in. I’ve been wondering how you were.

womblesofwimbledon5 · 07/10/2022 23:06

So happy for you!

B1pbop · 07/10/2022 23:07

Oh how wonderful! ❤

Doodledeedum · 07/10/2022 23:18

This is amazing ❤️❤️❤️❤️ I will keep praying x

EmmaH2022 · 07/10/2022 23:20

So pleased to hear this

Yellowrosesblue · 08/10/2022 14:12

Wonderful news OP

Jeds55 · 08/10/2022 14:21

Fantastic news 💓

Original poster
elm26 · 14/10/2022 18:54

Just a little update for all of you, baby is measuring on track and saw the HB ♥️ thank you again all of you xxxx

To ask for a handhold I feel so alone
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LaQuern · 14/10/2022 18:56

Big hugs. Keeping everything crossed for a good result for you

2018SoFarSoGreat · 14/10/2022 18:58

great news, OP. Sending all the best thoughts to you.

declutteringmymind · 14/10/2022 19:04

That's brilliant news. A very sticky hand hold for you OP.

shakeitoffshakeacocktail · 14/10/2022 19:12

Fantastic! Great news ❤️

Melonymelony · 14/10/2022 19:27

Wonderful news OP!

Titterofwit · 14/10/2022 19:30

Keep growing little bean !

FayeGovan · 14/10/2022 19:33

Brilliant news @elm26

FreezingThyme · 14/10/2022 19:35

How beautiful. Such wonderful news OP ❤️

IAmAlreadyRegrettingMyGreyColourScheme · 14/10/2022 20:07

Wonderful update!

Hang on in there little bean ❤

Cherrysherbet · 14/10/2022 20:10

How wonderful! Keeping everything crossed for you op 🤞🏻