To ask for a handhold I feel so alone

[elm26]

I'm due to have a 6/7 week scan tomorrow after multiple miscarriages (double figures) and I've got period like cramps and bleeding.

I've been bleeding on and off for 2 weeks, no clots.

I feel so alone and I just want to cancel my scan in the morning. Time and time again I've sat in that waiting area, I've had to listen to the "I'm sorry" words, I've had to sit in the family room with a useless leaflet about miscarriage and a box of tissues.

I'm not religious but I could really do with some positive thoughts being put out there for me tonight, I'm not sure I can endure another loss 😢

Wonderful news.

Amazing news . So happy for you.

@elm26 what a beautiful little tiny bean ❤️❤️❤️

I’m so pleased you had good news. All the best going forward in your pregnancy. 😊

Oh, that's wonderful news! So happy for you, OP. Wishing you all the best for the rest of your pregnancy

Op that's so heartbreaking, I'm sending you all the good wishes and vibes. We had a lot of trouble at the start of this pregnancy and I know my head was just away with the worry of it. It can feel so lonely. I really hope you get some answers at your scan but we did have to go back again at 8 weeks before we actually saw anything because it was so early for a scan. One thing I would say if you feel up to it is tell a friend or family member you trust because I found it really hard not telling anyone I was pregnant because it was still so early, but then having to go through all the fear and worry with DH alone. So if you have someone you can confide in I do think it makes a difference. I felt so lucky that one of my friends had been through a similar experience so I knew she understood and we were able to be there for each other and she didn't come out with the useless insensitive nonsense people say. You are not alone, you are very strong and I really really hope this works out for you xxx

I missed the update!!!! Delighted for you!!! Praying this little bean gets stronger every day!! Just be gentle with yourself, it's normal to feel anxious after everything that went before but remember you also deserve to feel the joy in this pregnancy too. Xx

I have no idea what I’m looking at, but yay 😁😍!

Wonderful news. Take care of yourself as well. Hope you can enjoy this pregnancy 🤗💐

Awww, OP!!!! how lovely for you, I bet you absolutely beamed when you saw the scan! ❤ congratulations x

That's lovely news 😍

Lovely news - congratulations

That's lovely news, sending you very best wishes for the rest of your pregnancy x

Amazing news, congratulations!

So pleased to hear this lovely news ☺️congratulations!!

I'm sending all the good vibes and thoughts to you. Praying it will be okay!!! Spotting in early pregnancy is v common as far as I know. Try not to worry and take good care of yourself. Best of luck tomorrow!!!

So happy to read this update! Wishing you lots of positive things for the rest of your pregnancy 😊

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Why not read the OPs updates?

That picture is amazing.

All the best to you Op.

Congratulations OP!

@Anamechangeisasgoodasarest maybe try not being so damn right rude.

Oh, how lovely! So pleased for you. Hello, little bean!

Brilliant!

I had cramping and spotting with both my pregnancies at 6 weeks and the sonographer at EPU said it's the time for further implantation.

Congratulations 💐

What happy news. 💐

Wonderful news, so happy for you x

Wonderful news OP x