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To ask for a handhold I feel so alone

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elm26 · 06/10/2022 23:21

I'm due to have a 6/7 week scan tomorrow after multiple miscarriages (double figures) and I've got period like cramps and bleeding.

I've been bleeding on and off for 2 weeks, no clots.

I feel so alone and I just want to cancel my scan in the morning. Time and time again I've sat in that waiting area, I've had to listen to the "I'm sorry" words, I've had to sit in the family room with a useless leaflet about miscarriage and a box of tissues.

I'm not religious but I could really do with some positive thoughts being put out there for me tonight, I'm not sure I can endure another loss 😢

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Bpiece · 02/11/2025 16:54

Congratulations! I love that you are still updating us after all this time!
It’s amazing when you think back to your first post, and look at your family now.
My ivf baby was 30 recently so I know a little of what you went through.

Linenpickle · 02/11/2025 17:14

Congrats!!! Such a happy ending.

Wayk · 02/11/2025 17:15

Congratulations, you have two beautiful children

Americano75 · 02/11/2025 17:15

elm26 · 02/11/2025 16:39

Hello everyone!

Just a little update.

I gave birth to a healthy baby boy on 6th September, Thomas.

Tilly adores being a big sister although she had some difficulty with the big change at first but I feel doubly blessed!

Hope you’re all well x

Oh my heart, congratulations!

EscapeFromHubby · 02/11/2025 18:11

Congratulations! I was thinking about this thread the other day. Thank you for sharing your little family with us, they're both gorgeous. I'm glad things have worked out well in the end for you Flowers

50plusandfabulous · 02/11/2025 20:46

Oh wow ❤️ that’s a beautiful picture and so happy for the update xxx

Happyddays · 02/11/2025 20:57

How absolutely wonderful.
God bless you and your family always.

Barney16 · 02/11/2025 21:05

Many congratulations. Beautiful children and what an excellent big sister your little girl will be.

nettie434 · 02/11/2025 21:54

I love seeing your updates. They are such a joy. Many congratulations to you all and welcome to Thomas who looks as adorable as his sister.

ChoresChoresChores · 02/11/2025 22:16

❤️ just discovered this post and it made me so happy. Congratulations on your gorgeous babies x

Maharajah20 · 02/11/2025 22:22

Beautiful 😍

Bumpsadaisie · 02/11/2025 23:31

Aw so pleased to see this and welcome baby Thomas! Great name!
What a pair of cuties. Tilly and Tommy, so cute. 🥰

Loachworks · 03/11/2025 02:02

You have a beautiful family. Tilly and Thomas are fortunate to be surrounded by your love. Congratulations. 🤍

Purplebunnie · 03/11/2025 10:56

Congratulations and thank you for the update and the gorgeous picture

spiderlight · 03/11/2025 11:20

Congratulations!! They are both absolutely beautiful.

HenryHooverIsMyDH · 07/11/2025 18:17

I love your updates - such love and positivity in a world that is usually so negative. They are adorable - thank you for sharing them with us.

Adarajames · 07/11/2025 21:47

So lovely to have updates on such a positive thread, congratulations! 🍾Enjoy your lovely little ones

Mulledwhynot · 09/11/2025 22:38

Such lovely news 🥰 congratulations x

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