Kids aside, if you could go back in time would you still marry your husband/wife?

[TrialsAndTribulationss]

Just interested if anyone else would choose not to or if I’m on my own with this one? Will stick with him for this lifetime though

A soft no. I just wouldn’t. He is a lovely person, but god it’s been too much like hard work. 3 dc married 17 years.

No. Thirty years together. The last ten he has changed. I mourn for the man I married.

Def not

No.

We have had some great times and he still is a good person but he can be so negative and it's draining. He has a chip on his shoulder and just can't let little things go.

I'm not saying I'm a cake walk either but I feel that even Eeyore has a brighter outlook on life.

He is an emotional vampire and his version of 'lack of reflection in a mirror' would equate to the fact he can't seem to see from someone else's perspective.

No! Definitely not

Yes, I feel lucky every day to have him

Yes, we have our ups and downs, take each other for granted sometimes and don’t prioritise intimacy but I have always felt happy and I have always felt safe. Being on here has made me appreciate how lucky I am.

Absolutely!

Definitely, we have a lovely, fun marriage. I was a little unsure at first because we lived in different countries. But my best friend told me that if I’d didn’t snap him up fast then someone else would. So I did. Been married 17 years.

100% no question

No

100% yes in a heartbeat

It's been up and down. Many great things about him but on balance probably no.

Yes. Without any doubt.

God no. Hindsight is there for a reason! Literally 2 good things came from it though 😊

Yes definitely -it was our 43 wedding anniversary on Monday and we were together 5 years before that. Not saying I maybe wouldn’t change how we dealt with some things over the years , but as long as we are together , that’s what matters

Absolutely yes. But he is a brilliant husband and father I thought he would be but he has exceeded on every scale.

Tricky question. I think I would but I'd do things differently.

I think I might have preferred it if we lived separately the whole time but got together a few times a week. I love him and I fancy him but I'd like more of my own space as I find him a bit irritating

No. He’s a great person. A genuinely lovely man. Kind, honest and solid. But marriage bores me witless. I loathe it.

Definitely. Coming up to twenty years together, no regrets. He’s not perfect (neither am I) but he makes me happy, he always has my back and I love him dearly.

One of his female friends did a “don’t marry her have me” at our engagement party…

Yes definitely!

Absolutely. We've been together 31 years and we still have lots to talk about, laugh about etc he's my best friend, my lover and my rock. And if that's too sucky I don't care, so there😜

In a heartbeat. He’s bloody ace.

I’d marry the man that I met, but not the man that he’s grown in to.