To question my DH about the bizarre items ive found?

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I've been away for work, I have come back to find items that certainly aren't mine, some quite bizarre things. A top, pink nail clippers, womens razor, small makeup pallete, all things that don't belong to me. My DD had also said to me on face time when I was away that DH was talking to a lady in the shower on the phone (she is only 5) so I didn't question her I just left it.
He also keeps checking my phone when I'm not in the room which is adding to my suspicion as that isnt normal behaviour for him.
I feel a bit silly really, it's a few random items but I know they do not belong to me and i feel like hes being weird. I'm not sure now if I'm over thinking or if I should genuinely ask him who the fuck the pink nail clippers belong to 😳😂AIBU to ask or am I being a twat? How do I go forward with this? Any help greatly appreciated.

No conversations, number was blocked on WhatsApp, there was loads of video calls on WhatsApp that hadnt been deleted on the calls bit, it had the phone number and her pic. And then on his phone she was deleted and blocked. It's his ex. She added me on Facebook about a month ago, I just thought she was being nosey. Wow.

You are bloody awesome, OP!

What a bitch, she was definitely leaving you a message laying around. She was probably going to tell you.

Bastard! He had the audacity to have her in your home in your bed. Very disrespectful your well off without him. Well done for giving him his marching orders.

Good god. It is just such a bloody cliché isn't it? Not very imaginative or clever.

Could be shitty story line from Corrie.

Sad.

And he and his mother were slagging you off? I wonder what she’ll think of him when she hears he was having sex with OW with her grandchildren present in the home.

Have you anyone that can call round to share that wine with? Theres no therapy better than a bottle of wine and a good girly chat.

I’m so sorry. You’ve handled it perfectly.

I think I love you. Brilliantly executed.

She did you a favour really. She wanted you to know for her own interests but actually it serves yours better.

Ok I just read all the post. Both your stbexh and his hoe are disgusting.

That bitch left those items on purpose so you could see them. As for that vile POS, he needs to go. No respect for you it’s disgusting. Euughh some people make me sick. What a vile disgusting pair they both deserve each other. I’m so sorry OP .

LTB! Seems like another day when I’m reminded that men at just trash.

His Ex? They’re both sleazy losers who have no decency or integrity.

Has she replied?

You are a star! Amazing detective skills - he really underestimated you didn't he? Though what a horrible experience for you.

Sounds like she planted the items for you to find. Dropping the odd item might be an accident but a top in your drawer and razor in your bathroom cabinet - nope!

I wonder if the "talking to a lady in the phone in the shower" was the actual lady. STBEXH was probably smuggling her in and out when your poor DD was in bed!

Ugh! Good riddance! Hope you are OK.

I genuinely believe that for someone to cheat on their partner the must actually hate them and want cause them pain. The fact that the lil tramps stuff we’re left all over the house and he didn’t even bother to remove them just shows how much a c* he is.

I don't understand why having blocked someone's contact details mean they're an affair partner? Am I being thick?

Have you been married a while OP? You say you have a 5yr old who I assume he is the dad of. As you're married, be prepared for him to make a claim for a share of your assets. Women on here get told regularly that it doesn't matter if the house is in the DH's name, it's an asset of the marriage.

The fact he admitted it was probably bit of a giveaway

There were video calls between them.

Well they are both pieces of work aren't they, not only having an affair but in your home and around your children.

You're handling this a lot better than I would be.

So your life is crashing down around your ears and your first thing to do is update here? 🤔

Well it's not you that's the lunatic is it OP. Those two deserve each other.

Jesus. What a moron he is!

If you think it's a troll then report.

What a prick. What a slag. Her and his mother.

That's all I have to say.