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beammeuphottie · 28/09/2022 20:28

The latest in the ongoing saga is that JM has left Twitter after being 'hounded off'. The incident that seemed to provoke this...someone critiquing a photo of her mums roast potatoes. It just gets more and more bizarre.

To be clear, I don't like to see public pile ons and some of the abuse directed at Jack has been unpleasant. But a lot has also been reasonable, polite requests for information regarding her patreon which have largely been totally ignored. And her supporters have to be some of the most cruel people on Twitter. It seems like it's fine for JM to voice her opinion but as soon as others do the same they are called out for bullying. And ironically subjected to vile comments from her followers. Go figure.

Am I the only one who thinks she's probably best having a little Twitter break? But eventually if she's ever to redeem her reputation she needs to show some transparency regarding public donations.

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MichelleScarn · 01/12/2022 18:11

Shame she can't think of other people though @rudolphrainbownose do you think the witch hunts and venom that she whips up with her followers against others is OK?

category12 · 01/12/2022 18:20

rudolphrainbownose · 01/12/2022 18:07

I do think this thread is distasteful tbh. It is very clear to anybody who has even glanced at her twitter she is very, very vulnerable and in very poor mental health. Does anyone posting here genuinely not think she is clearly very mentally unwell ?

She is clearly mentally ill , she is a recovering alcoholic , and has attempted suicide several times , as well as self harm. With that background, is it really necessary to go to the stalky level of obtaining floor plans for her house, investigating what colour she ahs painted her walls and mocking her ?

If you think her recipes are shit, just don't buy her cookery books. No one is forced to buy them, it's hardly a con.

This all smacks of bullying a little tbh.

I'm just going to repeat my previous answer: I think it's legit to discuss and be critical of public figures. You've got to remember they are making their living from their audiences, and their audiences deserve some accountability from them, it can't just be a one-way flow of uncritical adulation and money.

I disagree that it's bullying - if JM chooses to seek out and read online criticism, that would be her choice. Bullying would involve seeking her out to attack her.

In addition, I think that it's more than a matter of just don't buy it then if the recipes don't work - these are books that have been donated to foodbanks as part of her sales/fundraising drive. If the recipes don't work, those books are going to people who can't afford to waste the ingredients.

Applesandcarrots · 01/12/2022 18:21

rudolphrainbownose · 01/12/2022 18:07

I do think this thread is distasteful tbh. It is very clear to anybody who has even glanced at her twitter she is very, very vulnerable and in very poor mental health. Does anyone posting here genuinely not think she is clearly very mentally unwell ?

She is clearly mentally ill , she is a recovering alcoholic , and has attempted suicide several times , as well as self harm. With that background, is it really necessary to go to the stalky level of obtaining floor plans for her house, investigating what colour she ahs painted her walls and mocking her ?

If you think her recipes are shit, just don't buy her cookery books. No one is forced to buy them, it's hardly a con.

This all smacks of bullying a little tbh.

She is scamming people.

I think quote rightfully people are not believing everything she says about her MH. Or anything for that matter.

It is not just few shit recipes

Applesandcarrots · 01/12/2022 18:23

I would consider publishing private messages bullying. Well attempt. Because it's just hers ONe trying to make herself look good while trying to send backlash towards a very ACTUALLY vulnerable person atm instead of giving the fucking refund

entropynow · 01/12/2022 18:29

00100001 · 25/11/2022 21:47

Maybe pork, prime and nutmeg go really nicely together.... I'm not prepared to chance my meat rations on it though!

Pork and prunes are good actually. Sage not nutmeg though

Tinkerbyebye · 01/12/2022 18:35

rudolphrainbownose · 01/12/2022 18:07

I do think this thread is distasteful tbh. It is very clear to anybody who has even glanced at her twitter she is very, very vulnerable and in very poor mental health. Does anyone posting here genuinely not think she is clearly very mentally unwell ?

She is clearly mentally ill , she is a recovering alcoholic , and has attempted suicide several times , as well as self harm. With that background, is it really necessary to go to the stalky level of obtaining floor plans for her house, investigating what colour she ahs painted her walls and mocking her ?

If you think her recipes are shit, just don't buy her cookery books. No one is forced to buy them, it's hardly a con.

This all smacks of bullying a little tbh.

Why are her ‘followers’ not getting her the help she seems to need?

why hasn’t her family, you know the rich family that has supported her, advised her to stop?

personally I remain to be convinced she has any MH issues and isn’t just using it to account for her behaviour, and is a very good manipulator. She is self tested for adhd, it’s never been formally diagnosed as far as I can tell, she blatantly lies and when caught out strops off Twitter, but comes back a few day later

i have never liked her from day one, she is nothing but a bully herself, using her flying monkeys to do her dirty work and I am glad she is now being caught out

rudolphrainbownose · 01/12/2022 18:41

What is the actual scam ?

Genuine question. I don't think writing rubbish recipes is an actual scam the police would get involved with.

MichelleScarn · 01/12/2022 18:56

rudolphrainbownose · 01/12/2022 18:41

What is the actual scam ?

Genuine question. I don't think writing rubbish recipes is an actual scam the police would get involved with.

Am surprised you don't know, given your level of knowledge on how people are being mean to poor JM...
Scam is taking money by promising content via Patreon and not delivering said content. Then shrieking and claiming bullying when called out on it.

Emotionalsupportviper · 01/12/2022 18:58

rudolphrainbownose · 01/12/2022 18:07

I do think this thread is distasteful tbh. It is very clear to anybody who has even glanced at her twitter she is very, very vulnerable and in very poor mental health. Does anyone posting here genuinely not think she is clearly very mentally unwell ?

She is clearly mentally ill , she is a recovering alcoholic , and has attempted suicide several times , as well as self harm. With that background, is it really necessary to go to the stalky level of obtaining floor plans for her house, investigating what colour she ahs painted her walls and mocking her ?

If you think her recipes are shit, just don't buy her cookery books. No one is forced to buy them, it's hardly a con.

This all smacks of bullying a little tbh.

Jack may or may not be mentally ill. She certainly appears yo be lacking in empathy, desperate for attention, and have a very poor relationship with the truth much of the time.

She also spins everything to suit her own agenda, accepts money from very vulnerable people (many of whom have told her their circumstances, so she does know) and is supported on Patreon by people to whom she has promised various things which she hasn't delivered, and yet ignores requests for refunds.

What is distasteful is that a thread such as this has come to be written - if she were honest, and fulfilled her obligations then it wouldn't exist.

You say If you think her recipes are shit, just don't buy her cookery books. No one is forced to buy them, it's hardly a con. This all smacks of bullying a little tbh.

I don't buy her cookery books - I had the first one and spent money I could ill-afford on the book and the ingredients for rubbish meals which were quite literally inedible. Even the dog we had then wouldn't eat them, and he would eat his own excitement if he got the chance. Iy is a "con" because people are led to believe that these are good, delicious, nutritious meals - and they aren't.

If you think this thread is "distasteful", why not follow your own advice and just don't read it? It's very clear that whatever her personal circumstances she has taken advantage of a lot of people - and she is something of a bully herself. She has said some dreadful things to people who have even disagreed with her, and has caused horrific pile-ons on people she thinks have criticised her.

Does having "poor mental health" mean she should be allowed to do as she likes and continue to take money for nothing? Of course it doesn't! She is responsible for everything going wrong for herself. She has had opportunities that many others would give their eye teeth for and thrown them away. She has no-one to blame but herself.

I feel sorry for her, because she is obviously a very unhappy person, but frankly, she will never be happy because nothing will be enough for her.

And I feel sorry for her for the people she's taken advantage of more.

Emotionalsupportviper · 01/12/2022 19:02

I would consider publishing private messages bullying.

Anything posted on a public social media site is not a "private message".

She posts, and frequently deletes when her posts have accomplished what she wants (usually a pile-on). Unfortunately for her, the internet never forgets.

Applesandcarrots · 01/12/2022 19:11

MichelleScarn · 01/12/2022 18:56

Am surprised you don't know, given your level of knowledge on how people are being mean to poor JM...
Scam is taking money by promising content via Patreon and not delivering said content. Then shrieking and claiming bullying when called out on it.

Also pretending to be poor and asking for donations while not being poor...

AnonWeeMouse · 01/12/2022 19:17

rudolphrainbownose · 01/12/2022 18:07

I do think this thread is distasteful tbh. It is very clear to anybody who has even glanced at her twitter she is very, very vulnerable and in very poor mental health. Does anyone posting here genuinely not think she is clearly very mentally unwell ?

She is clearly mentally ill , she is a recovering alcoholic , and has attempted suicide several times , as well as self harm. With that background, is it really necessary to go to the stalky level of obtaining floor plans for her house, investigating what colour she ahs painted her walls and mocking her ?

If you think her recipes are shit, just don't buy her cookery books. No one is forced to buy them, it's hardly a con.

This all smacks of bullying a little tbh.

Claims offered:
Mentally ill... Suicide attempts... Recovering Alcoholic...

If she is mentally ill, she should be kept away from Social Media, it's doing her no good, yet no one is stopping her..
If she is mentally ill the weight of knowingly conning people would be taking such a toll that she's stop.. she isn't.

Suicide attempts she may have claimed to have thought about it, she may claim to have even tried it, but so has 99% of all mentally and emotionally abusive people when they need to deflect attention from thei actions.

Recovering Alcoholic is also questionable. There is little to no proof that she was indeed an alcoholic. Recently she shared a photo on line but hadn't cropped out her camera roll which quite clearly showed a pint of lager beside a meal she was sharing with her son.

Quite frankly. Every word she says is bullshit.

And as for "What scams?"
Kickstarter..
Patreon..
Legal fees for suing Lee Anderson..
Teemill funds..

And, her whole life is one big scam.. she presents as some poor hard working working class so gle mum. All of which have been disproven time and time again, but idiots choose not to look and just ass pat the lying scam artist so she continues to grift.

You can either open your eyes and see the truth or you can enable her to lie and fleece people so she never has to work and she can spend all day on twitter.. but, as you believe she has bad mental health, why would you want to enable her to love her life on social media?

WaddleAway · 01/12/2022 19:19

rudolphrainbownose · 01/12/2022 18:07

I do think this thread is distasteful tbh. It is very clear to anybody who has even glanced at her twitter she is very, very vulnerable and in very poor mental health. Does anyone posting here genuinely not think she is clearly very mentally unwell ?

She is clearly mentally ill , she is a recovering alcoholic , and has attempted suicide several times , as well as self harm. With that background, is it really necessary to go to the stalky level of obtaining floor plans for her house, investigating what colour she ahs painted her walls and mocking her ?

If you think her recipes are shit, just don't buy her cookery books. No one is forced to buy them, it's hardly a con.

This all smacks of bullying a little tbh.

I think writing blog posts about how you can’t afford shower gel or soap, and are so poor you have unscrewed your light bulbs (with a link to your PayPal account) while taking £1000’s a month in patreon income (and not providing the promised rewards. For 2 years) while sitting in a large 4 bed house surrounded by luxury possessions and designer clothing is pretty distasteful too, to be honest.

WaddleAway · 01/12/2022 19:20

And it’s not ‘bullying’, because she doesn’t have to read it. None of us are aiming abuse at her personally.

AnonWeeMouse · 01/12/2022 19:25

WaddleAway · 01/12/2022 19:19

I think writing blog posts about how you can’t afford shower gel or soap, and are so poor you have unscrewed your light bulbs (with a link to your PayPal account) while taking £1000’s a month in patreon income (and not providing the promised rewards. For 2 years) while sitting in a large 4 bed house surrounded by luxury possessions and designer clothing is pretty distasteful too, to be honest.

Luxury possessions that run to a total of over £100k

That's other people's cash she's used to buy those, cash handed to her thanks to her cyber begging.

If there was a lad in town sitting in a 100k car and begging for cash, everyone would tell him to piss off... But spin a lie or two and put the begging bowl out, life is funded for nothing of value in return.

Emotionalsupportviper · 01/12/2022 19:42

Luxury possessions that run to a total of over £100k

But those are INVESTMENTS that she can SELL when she's DESPERATE.

God - do you want her to STOP BREATHING?!

(Ridiculous over-exaggeration? Her words, not mine.)

Crikeyalmighty · 01/12/2022 20:05

I think she has an awful lot in common with Farage. Played on many vulnerable and hard up peoples concerns , for their own personal gain. Over promised and under delivered. Don't forget Farage took money for all kinds of things, candidacy (and then pulled candidates to help the Tory's) marches (where he did an hour or so ) and then left everyone else too it. They are both charlatan grifters but know the right strings to pull and know that many decent but struggling people are just plain gullible .

SweetSakura · 01/12/2022 20:55

Emotionalsupportviper · 01/12/2022 19:42

Luxury possessions that run to a total of over £100k

But those are INVESTMENTS that she can SELL when she's DESPERATE.

God - do you want her to STOP BREATHING?!

(Ridiculous over-exaggeration? Her words, not mine.)

Is that you Jack?! 🤣

SweetSakura · 01/12/2022 20:56

Crikeyalmighty · 01/12/2022 20:05

I think she has an awful lot in common with Farage. Played on many vulnerable and hard up peoples concerns , for their own personal gain. Over promised and under delivered. Don't forget Farage took money for all kinds of things, candidacy (and then pulled candidates to help the Tory's) marches (where he did an hour or so ) and then left everyone else too it. They are both charlatan grifters but know the right strings to pull and know that many decent but struggling people are just plain gullible .

And in both instances only got away with so much for so long because the media gave them a platform and legitimacy

curledupwiththecat · 01/12/2022 21:20

If anyone really wants to know about Jack's recipes, have a look at the slopalong threads on t(w)attle. People have been trying to recreate them, with limited success.

Yes, I tried one and yes, it was revolting.

Crikeyalmighty · 01/12/2022 21:25

@SweetSakura abso bloody lutely. Both were sharp enough and media savvy enough to get the attention (and hence the support of some people taking them at face value)

Emotionalsupportviper · 01/12/2022 22:28

SweetSakura · 01/12/2022 20:55

Is that you Jack?! 🤣

No.

In the interests of being FORENSIC I softly, gently, tenderly counted my tattoos and I don't have any, so I know I'm not Jack.

Also my food is delicious (well - edible 😁) and my dog likes me.

JubileeTrifle · 02/12/2022 08:09

She breadcrumbs suicide and talks about ‘full mental breakdowns’ when she has been criticised for something she’s done. A week later she will be back to ‘living her best life’. I can’t imagine many people get over mental breakdowns in a week? Although she got over alcoholism in a week. So who knows.

She will mention any illness/issue to gain sympathy cash - alcoholism, stalking, cancer, heart attack, sexual abuse…

I imagine she has a personality disorder. She obviously has no conscious.

People saying ‘she’s obviously got mental illness you need to leave her alone’ is exactly why she has gotten away with all this so long.

cookiesbeforepookies · 02/12/2022 08:40

rudolphrainbownose · 01/12/2022 18:07

I do think this thread is distasteful tbh. It is very clear to anybody who has even glanced at her twitter she is very, very vulnerable and in very poor mental health. Does anyone posting here genuinely not think she is clearly very mentally unwell ?

She is clearly mentally ill , she is a recovering alcoholic , and has attempted suicide several times , as well as self harm. With that background, is it really necessary to go to the stalky level of obtaining floor plans for her house, investigating what colour she ahs painted her walls and mocking her ?

If you think her recipes are shit, just don't buy her cookery books. No one is forced to buy them, it's hardly a con.

This all smacks of bullying a little tbh.

No one here has said they’ve stalked to obtain her floor plans or stalked her colours.

Where have you got that from?

Highlighting someone’s inconsistencies and worrying about the advantage they’re taking of vulnerable people is not bullying.

cookiesbeforepookies · 02/12/2022 08:43

She seems to have set her Twitter to ask people to pay Tips. Or does Twitter ask this for every Tweeter?

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