My friend has come over for some drinks. We were originally meant to go out but I couldn't afford it so she came to mine instead.
She said she'd get a cab home, but we live in a village and when it came to booking she was having issues.
My OH was awake as our DS had woken up. I asked if he could take her home. He was no happy about it and said he'd find a cab. My friend had already tried 3 so I said can you please just take her home. She's a female and needs to get home safe. He reluctantly agreed and is now pissed off at me!
Am I being unreasonable to ask this of him?
AIBU?
Boyfriend to give a friend a lift home
MumLife90 · 24/09/2022 23:46
pinheadlarry · 25/09/2022 01:53
If he was already awake then whats the problem?
PinkSyCo · 25/09/2022 02:05
If your boyfriend was not asleep then why did you say in your original post that he was awake because your child had woken up. That made it sound as though said child had woken him from his slumber, in which case it would’ve been unreasonable of you to ask him to get out of bed to drive someone home, whereas if he was wide awake a kind man would have helped out willingly.
StandingInTheMoment · 25/09/2022 02:15
He was a bit pissed off which is reasonable as he wasn’t expecting to have to go out and it was late. But he took your friend home. You jumped on mumsnet as soon as he left the house to tell everyone. Within an hour it was all sorted, friend home, partner no longer pissed off. Ridiculous. 🤣
Tinkity · 25/09/2022 01:58
It's not wildly late, my friend couldn't stay because she has a child she needed to get back to
Who was with her child? If it was her partner, couldn’t he have come picked her up?
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Harrystylestutu · 25/09/2022 06:14
She might have a babysitter to get back to though..@Tinkity @Zonder
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