NC’d because I know other nursery mum’s are on here.
DS is 3 and has had glasses for two years. He has a very strong prescription and gets very upset when his glasses are taken away (because he’s essentially blind). We did tell nursery this. He even has goggles for swimming and sports goggles too, we always make sure he has a spare pair on him in case something happens to them.
We’ve been given the order form for his school photos (individual and class photo) and he’s not wearing his glasses. Nursery mentioned to DH at pick up on the day they were taken that they took them off because it looks nicer - DH didn’t mention this to me until after I saw the proofs today. They also mentioned to DH that he was a bit upset during the photos and that they struggled to get one (which will be because he didn’t have his glasses on)!
I’m really upset that they took his glasses off him. I think he looks adorable in them but, regardless, that’s not their purpose. They’re a medical device and he needs them. On the other hand, what’s done is done, there’s no long term harm and he does look precious in the photos.
AIBU to raise this with his teacher and ask them not to remove them for future photos? There have been no other issues, we’re very happy and DS loves going there.
AIBU?
Nursery made DS take his glasses off
GlassesWearer · 23/09/2022 17:57
Am I being unreasonable?
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LivingMyBestLie · 23/09/2022 19:39
Depending on where in Kent you live, I think you'd be lucky finding a place now.
Didn't you get a feel at open days?
It's not snobby at all. You need a school that suits the whole family.
Confrontayshunme · 23/09/2022 19:36
I think that is pretty awful, but school photographers can be total jobsworths (with very little real skill) and may have told them there would be a reflection.
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