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To let 13 year old dress like a drug dealer??

320 replies

Textboxmm · 21/09/2022 20:19

DS is 13 and suddenly has taken an interest in ‘fashion’ which mostly seems to be dressing in all black sports logos and puffa
jackets. Nike trainers, puma joggers, north face hoody - you get the idea.

oh, and calling us ‘fam’ every frigging minute,
innit bruv.

given that he’s a white, MC kid, in a MC area at a MC school ( state but uniform with tie/blazer/shirt etc) with all that comes with that, I think it’s annoying/amusing and that he’ll grow out of this fake ‘street’ phase.

DH on the other hand thinks that he’s dressing. like a drug dealer and we should go buy him some Boden or something.

AIBU to just let 13 year old to dress how he likes??

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Goldenbear · 22/09/2022 13:20

Yes, DS is fearful of the Barbers, well as you say the ones that are reasonable as he hates the outcome and says they hack his top flop off and give him an awful 'Dad cut'. Tbh the fear means he has a bit of a mullet going on but he doesn't particularly want one of those.

WhoppingBigBackside · 22/09/2022 13:21

What is CP Company? There is a Stone Island t-shirt in the laundry basket waiting to be put away. Should I be worried?

AllThatFancyPaintsAsFair · 22/09/2022 14:16

WhoppingBigBackside · 22/09/2022 13:21

What is CP Company? There is a Stone Island t-shirt in the laundry basket waiting to be put away. Should I be worried?

Both brands beloved by the roadmen
Don't forget to take the silly googly things off the CP drip before washing

WhoppingBigBackside · 22/09/2022 14:31

Didn't see any silly googly things. It's been washed. What have I done? It's been washed before, so it wasn't me.
Young men wear those horrid skinny baggy arsed joggers and black puffers with big logos. I thought Stone Island was like River Island.

Rolothecat · 22/09/2022 15:06

It’s the fake Louis Vuitton cross body man bags that make me smile, like a little uniform of them all-‘my son included! I don’t think as parents we are meant to like their phases and styles I know my parents didn’t like mine :)

EveryFlightBeginsWithAFall · 22/09/2022 15:49

WhoppingBigBackside · 22/09/2022 12:33

He'll be doing that jiggling thing with his hands in his pockets that they do.

Checking the balls are still there

Dreikanter · 22/09/2022 16:04

EveryFlightBeginsWithAFall · 22/09/2022 15:49

Checking the balls are still there

At least they can count up to two.

Lilyhatesjaz · 22/09/2022 16:49

My DH likes to wear North face. I am feeling a little concerned after reading this thread. Although the look is going hiking rather than drug dealer.

XelaM · 22/09/2022 18:01

My daughter's Cambridge-education very elderly 11+ Maths tutor wore a North Face jacket. Don't know if he sold drugs as a side gig🤷‍♀️

Againstmachine · 22/09/2022 19:12

What is CP Company? There is a Stone Island t-shirt in the laundry basket waiting to be put away. Should I be worried?

They are brands beloved by football hooligans or middle-aged men who think they are hooligans.

Againstmachine · 22/09/2022 19:14

My daughter's Cambridge-education very elderly 11+ Maths tutor wore a North Face jacket. Don't know if he sold drugs as a side gig🤷‍♀️

North Face used to be a good brand for outdoors so was probably from then, however it's been worn down by association. It's still very pricey however plenty of faces are available like Burberry back in day.

StridTheKiller · 22/09/2022 19:26

Has he started referring to you as Homeslice yet OP?

EntertainingandFactual · 22/09/2022 20:09

Textboxmm · 22/09/2022 10:08

For anyone else wanting to get the ‘look’…

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Textboxmm · 22/09/2022 21:09

‘My daughter's Cambridge-education very elderly 11+ Maths tutor wore a North Face jacket. Don't know if he sold drugs as a side gig🤷‍♀️’

my FIL wears a North Face jacket. I have Nike runners. DP has an Addidas running top… it’s not individual items… it’s the ‘look’…

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Textboxmm · 29/09/2022 12:15

After all that DS came home yesterday and announced that his mate took the Mickey out of him for looking like a ‘chav’ and now he’s not sure he can wear his new coat 😫 Have informed the little princeling that if wants another coat he’s going to have to start saving for it…

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Sunnytwobridges · 29/09/2022 12:46

Eddieisadick · 21/09/2022 20:44

You seem to be suggesting that drug dealers are black

This!

i am surprised at the votes but then again I forget times haven’t changed much.

i know many men that dress like this (without the fake Jamaican accent lol) and they are far from drug dealers.

I’ve seen suit wearing drug dealers before , so to paint anyone that wears Nike and puffy jackets with the same brush as a drug dealer is ridiculous.

TheClogLady · 29/09/2022 13:12

Textboxmm · 29/09/2022 12:15

After all that DS came home yesterday and announced that his mate took the Mickey out of him for looking like a ‘chav’ and now he’s not sure he can wear his new coat 😫 Have informed the little princeling that if wants another coat he’s going to have to start saving for it…

😃

Teenagers eh?
Maybe he can flog the coat to an elderly 11+ tutor and use the cash for a less conspicuous winter jacket!

Babyitstimetomoveon · 30/09/2022 08:42

Textboxmm · 29/09/2022 12:15

After all that DS came home yesterday and announced that his mate took the Mickey out of him for looking like a ‘chav’ and now he’s not sure he can wear his new coat 😫 Have informed the little princeling that if wants another coat he’s going to have to start saving for it…

🤣🤣🤣

PolkaDotMankini · 01/10/2022 15:13

LizzieVereker · 21/09/2022 21:37

I think some of your kids have made a little film:

Also, it’s all about the Crocs now, not the trainers of sliders, man.

I showed this to DS's mates on the way home from football this morning and had a car-full of 12yo's singing it for the rest of the journey. "Do you wanna be a roadmaaaaaan"

DS says I am 'so annoying and embarrassing'.

Thegroaninggurner · 04/10/2022 20:02

Anyone else finding themselves watching the Sidemen? Lol

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