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Ffs just tell us when the funeral is!

636 replies

CrapBucket · 09/09/2022 18:28

Just tell us if its the Saturday or the Monday please ffs. 'Expected' to be is driving me mad.

OP posts:
Wearefoooked22 · 09/09/2022 19:18

My local paper said schools are being prepared to close for the queen’s funeral,people need to suck it up!.she was THE QUEEN for god sake.

beachcitygirl · 09/09/2022 19:19

Why would you care? Are you invited?

JenniferAllisonPhillipaSue · 09/09/2022 19:21

ajandjjmum · 09/09/2022 19:16

I have a lumpectomy booked for the Wednesday, with a hospital process on the Tuesday - if the funeral is on the Monday, it should be fine, if not it may alter things.

I think that's a pretty valid reason for wanting to know ASAP, to give me time to get my head around any change!

DH has a long-awaited dental appointment on the Monday, so we'd rather it was any other day!

Waiting, waiting. I wish the media would stop with their speculation of which day it will be, as it's confusing. I want a definitive date so we know what's happening.

Leftbutcameback · 09/09/2022 19:21

It won't be Saturday, that's too soon. Monday 19 September is Day10 which has always been the planned funeral date (although day zero was today rather than yesterday due to the announcement being late in the day) so I would assume it's that unless they have a good reason to change it.

Closures are a different matter. I have no idea on those.

Sparklingbrook · 09/09/2022 19:21

ajandjjmum · 09/09/2022 19:16

I have a lumpectomy booked for the Wednesday, with a hospital process on the Tuesday - if the funeral is on the Monday, it should be fine, if not it may alter things.

I think that's a pretty valid reason for wanting to know ASAP, to give me time to get my head around any change!

I agree that's a very valid reason. But it appears nobody is allowed to want to know. Confused

MadeWithCare · 09/09/2022 19:21

Wearefoooked22 · 09/09/2022 19:18

My local paper said schools are being prepared to close for the queen’s funeral,people need to suck it up!.she was THE QUEEN for god sake.

I've seen every notice from the DfE. Schools aren't "being" prepared for anything.

So far all we've really been told is to cancel celebratory events. Schools individually may be making plans/considering scenarios, but there's been nothing official.

RebulahConundrum · 09/09/2022 19:21

Is it wrong that I hope it's the 19th so I can get an extra day off after my week off work?

Sparklingbrook · 09/09/2022 19:23

If supermarkets are to be shut then people might want to get their groceries in.

GhostFromTheOtherSide · 09/09/2022 19:24

No-one knows. On top of Saturday and Monday I have also read that it’s expected to be Sunday.

Also that if it’s on Monday there won’t be a bank holiday but that closures will be at companies’ discretion.

BloodyHellKen · 09/09/2022 19:24

We've been told by school they will be closed on the 19th for the funeral.

GoingOnce · 09/09/2022 19:25

I thought they'd had this planned for years?

I don’t think they came up with a date in advance!

EssentialGarage · 09/09/2022 19:26

beachcitygirl · 09/09/2022 19:19

Why would you care? Are you invited?

Can you really not think of one reason why people might care?

Anyway we are all invited, she was our monarch, we just don't get a seat inside.

OrangePumpkinLobelia · 09/09/2022 19:26

Sparklingbrook · 09/09/2022 19:02

I’d like to know so I can plan too. I don’t think it’s an unreasonable question.

It's not at all an unreasonable question as you say @Sparklingbrook . I want to know as well, and both DH and I wfh on Mondays usually so for us childcare is not an issue. But it is fairly obvious how much of an issue it can be for many people and for many organisations.

I hope we hear very soon so that people can hopefully put in place whatever they need to do for their own circumstances.

PerfectlyPreservedQuagaarWarrior · 09/09/2022 19:27

beachcitygirl · 09/09/2022 19:19

Why would you care? Are you invited?

Is it not fairly obvious? The funeral will be a massive event, the logistics and policing are going to be huge, and it's going to have an impact on whatever's going on that day. Even if the schools stay open, which we don't seem to know one way or another yet, so many people are going to be affected by when the date is.

Pumperthepumper · 09/09/2022 19:27

beachcitygirl · 09/09/2022 19:19

Why would you care? Are you invited?

I’m so envious of how free your life is. Imagine never having to organise anything because nobody is dependent on you

EssentialGarage · 09/09/2022 19:27

if it’s on Monday there won’t be a bank holiday but that closures will be at companies’ discretion.

Which will be the worst outcome.

GoingOnce · 09/09/2022 19:27

She’s been dead about 27 hours. I can’t believe people can’t grasp the enormity of what has to be arranged. Especially as her death caught everyone off-guard.

ArticSaviour · 09/09/2022 19:29

Woopzies · 09/09/2022 18:28

Why? Are you doing the grub?

GrinGrinGrin

RhinestoneCowgirl · 09/09/2022 19:29

If it's on 19th then I already have a funeral to go to that day, of another very old lady, but one that I actually knew.

TwinkleChristmas · 09/09/2022 19:29

Ffs give them a bloody chance. She only died yesterday for god sake.

Sonnex · 09/09/2022 19:29

Caught everyone off guard?!? They've been planning for it for 60 years! And doing annual practices.

Pumperthepumper · 09/09/2022 19:29

GoingOnce · 09/09/2022 19:27

She’s been dead about 27 hours. I can’t believe people can’t grasp the enormity of what has to be arranged. Especially as her death caught everyone off-guard.

She was ninety six!

EssentialGarage · 09/09/2022 19:29

GoingOnce I can't understand how people can not grasp the enormity of what has to be arranged by the other 68million people that live in the UK.

TwinkleChristmas · 09/09/2022 19:30

GoingOnce · 09/09/2022 19:27

She’s been dead about 27 hours. I can’t believe people can’t grasp the enormity of what has to be arranged. Especially as her death caught everyone off-guard.

Exactly. It’s ridiculous.

giveovernate · 09/09/2022 19:30

TwinkleChristmas · 09/09/2022 19:29

Ffs give them a bloody chance. She only died yesterday for god sake.

But they've been practising for years!