I had a baby yesterday and I’m currently on the post natal ward. Right next to me there’s a couple which baby cries all day and all night. I’m fine with that and I sympathise with the mother. The staff is being really helpful and supportive as well.
tonight her baby woke up and cried desperately for over 30 minutes and both partner and mother were sound asleep and snoring really loud! I called the midwife to help the baby (hungry and had a full nappy). Again, I’ve got no problems whatsoever with the mum she must be having a very difficult time.
Her partner however is driving me insane! He snores like an animal all night long. She’s awake now and AIBU to think she should wake him up and make him move or change position? I would definitely do it to my DH. I can hear her moving and walking around so perhaps she could at least poke him whatever to try to make him stop? She’s just there minding her own business whilst her partner is keeping me and my newborn awake with his snore that sounds like a trumpet.
AIBU?
Maternity ward visitor is driving me mad
custardshire · 08/09/2022 04:09
Am I being unreasonable?
1320 votes. Final results.
POLLInertia · 08/09/2022 09:04
@starbaby858 so what’s your solution for single mothers, or women whose partners have to stay home overnight to look after older children, and who don’t have family or friends nearby ? They have to struggle alone AND face the risks and inconvenience?
There are hospitals where men are not allowed to stay overnight on wards. How do they make it work?
ElizabethBest · 08/09/2022 04:13
The postnatal ward is the actual 7th circle of hell.
bestbefore · 08/09/2022 05:26
I can't believe they let men stay...what's the point?! Are they just behind a curtain from you? How awful...
EddieHowesBlackandWhiteArmy · 08/09/2022 09:35
I totally agree that fathers shouldn’t be staying over on the postnatal ward but the only reason our hospital agreed to it was because it was an overwhelming request from mothers. In reality it’s awful but it’s what the women said they wanted regularly and forcefully.
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ElizabethBest · 08/09/2022 04:13
The postnatal ward is the actual 7th circle of hell.
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