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To think that at some point people will have to say that Brexit was never a good idea

213 replies

heatissweet · 07/09/2022 16:34

We are sinking as a country and only a very few people are better off since Brexit. It seems to me like an experiment that hasn't worked. AIBU to think that it's odd that it's hardly mentioned as one of the reasons why everything is so bleak right now? Even Liz Truss thought it was a bad idea at the time.

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WhileMyGuitarGentlyWeeps · 07/09/2022 22:31

TokidokiBarbie · 07/09/2022 22:24

Piss off.

The reason there's a Brexit section (and a gender section now) is because people were getting sick of reading these threads. It takes a certain type of arrogance/attention seeking to deliberately ignore the hint and continue posting in the highest traffic areas to 'force' people to see your threads.

The only people who are still crying over it are people like you, so you may as well go and have a group sniffle in your special section.

I'm not enamoured with Brexit overall despite the massive personal benefits to myself, but it's happened and it's time to stop being a massive crybaby/sore loser. We live in a thing called a democracy and the majority have spoken.

If only I could LIKE this post 100 X over!

bellinisurge · 07/09/2022 22:33

I'm not crying over it. I'm bored of people pretending it's not having a negative impact on our economy. And I'm as concerned as I was before the wretched vote about Northern Ireland.

TokidokiBarbie · 07/09/2022 22:40

heatissweet · 07/09/2022 22:29

Two conflicting posts, about how you've both made a fortune now from truck driving, and at the same time are not enamoured with Brexit and people shouldn't start threads on it. But if we hadn't had the thread we wouldn't have found out about the big boost it has given truck drivers so there's that.

Well, I'm not making a fortune yet. Just making £45k rather than £35k. But the huge deficit of competition will no doubt make it much easier to get started as a Ltd company - main contractor are so desperate for drivers they've been helping some of them with the initial outlay involved in hiring the vehicles and maintaining them - in the long run it's better for them to cut out the middlemen like my bosses.

And there's nothing conflicting about me recognising that what's good for me isn't necessarily good for the country as a whole. It's called empathy but I'm guessing you might not be too familiar with it, given the forcing of your Brexit whinges on people who don't seem too keen to read them.

heatissweet · 07/09/2022 22:44

It's called empathy but I'm guessing you might not be too familiar with it, given the forcing of your Brexit whinges on people who don't seem too keen to read them.

Hmm
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SunscreenCentral · 07/09/2022 22:58

They will never admit it. How could they?

A great harm was done to the people of the nations of the UK whilst the Rees Mogg nightmare slendermen coined it all in and moved their corporate entities to Europe.

Even that pathetic troll that takes money for saying what you pay him to (Farage - took me that long to come up with his name, sorry..) got his family EU passports immediately through his wife god love her. As he always knew he would.

We are all Europeans. But the UK is some kind of weird Arkansas now.

TooBigForMyBoots · 07/09/2022 23:06

WhileMyGuitarGentlyWeeps · 07/09/2022 21:48

@Florenz

So tired of people going on about Brexit. Being in the EU wasn't of benefit to enough British people, if it was, remain would have won. For all the people going on about losing the freedom to study, work all over the EU, the amount of people that actually did that is very small, far less than the amount of people negatively affected by downward pressure on wages due to unfettered EU immigration, plus all the pressure on housing, public services etc

Maybe just maybe, if remainers had cared more about people outside of their immediate social circle, they'd have realised that a hell of a lot of people did not like being in the EU at all, there probably wouldn't have been referendum though if that was the case. Cameron only had the referendum became he thought it was a certainty that remain would win.

Brilliant post!!! You will of course get shouted down on here however, for not slathering all over the EU and singing their non-existent praises. Because the remainers (the type you see on threads like this anyway,) cannot stand ANY point of view except their own, and will just not accept that a massive amount of people wanted to leave the EU for very bloody good reasons!!!... People from all walks of life, all classes, all careers, all colours and creeds, and all education levels.

Because they got absolutely NO benefit from it whatsoever, they realised we don't need to be in it, and that the EU has outlived its usefulness and is nothing but a big boys club for the elite. A LOT of people agree with your point of view, but don't post/won't post because of the usual boring and predictable 'racist, gammon, bigot, thick, low-class brexit scum' type posts that the champagne socialists always trot out.

This is why LEAVE won, even though most people expected REMAIN would, because the leave voters were shouted down so often by the vile far left wokies and their toxic bile, that they just stopped saying anything. The silent majority won.

The same thing happened with the general elections.

The left control the media, they control the message forums, they control magazines, they control TV and film, they control twitter and facebook and instagram and social media in general...

They do NOT control the ballot boxes.

The UK press is predominately right wing: The Times, The Mail, The Sun, Express etc. Many of them opposed Brexit.

Brexit was far from a Left vs Right issue.

TokidokiBarbie · 07/09/2022 23:09

I once had a leave voter explain it to me as below (paraphrased).

'Which would you prefer? To be married to a rich man and have loads of resources but have to relinquish your independence and have him govern your actions? Or would you prefer to be independent and self sufficient but poorer in the short term?'

jcyclops · 07/09/2022 23:19

heatissweet · 07/09/2022 17:49

How many years were we a country outside of the European Union? I know it happened in my lifetime. I don’t understand why so many people act as though we were never a country that stood alone.

Just googled and it said talks started to join the EU in 1970 and we joined in 1973? so for many MNers like me we have always been in -but am not sure why that is relevant anyway? the world has moved on since the 60s Confused

We joined the EEC (later EC) on 1st January 1973 under Heath, and held a referendum on it under Wilson on 5th June 1975. The EEC was a very different organisation to the EU.

We signed up to join the EU on 7th February 1992 under John Major's government. It had to be ratified by parliament, and this proved impossible for many months. Labour under John Smith was against it, and a large number of Tory Eurosceptics also persistently voted against. Major eventually got it through in July 1993 by threatening to dissolve parliament and hold a general election, thus bringing the Tory rebels onside. The treaty became effective on 1st November 1993. Incidentally, the French only ratified it after a referendum with a Yes vote of 50.8%, so the EU was very close to never existing!

TooBigForMyBoots · 07/09/2022 23:52

Thing is @SunscreenCentral a lot of them do admit it. Maybe not as vocally as they proclaimed Leave and few Mnetters will, but IRL they are. And they, like PP are looking at how they were lied to and are rightfully pissed off about it.

mamabear715 · 07/09/2022 23:55

It happened. Move on.

KenAdams · 08/09/2022 00:27

Not sure if this has been posted yet but this FT article was an interesting read - on.ft.com/3cRSfvw

HRTQueen · 08/09/2022 00:41

I think it’s better it’s not such a spoken about political issue as people have become tired of the subject

give a few years and we can work towards re joining at the moment there would be too many responding like Brenda ‘what another one I can’t stand this’

bellinisurge · 08/09/2022 06:40

No one likes to admit they were lied to.

lasvegasherewe · 08/09/2022 07:07

Imagine how Scotland feels! We were dragged out

Endlesssummer2022 · 08/09/2022 07:14

Nobody was lied to, they were seduced. There’s a difference.

If 99 qualified financial advisors told you not to invest in snake oil and 1 quack told you to and therefore you did, you were not lied to, you were seduced by their BS because you so wanted it to be true. You wanted to BeLeave. You are not a victim when you make silly decisions when there were more red flags that a Chinese New Year celebration being waved in your face.

NewPapaGuinea · 08/09/2022 07:29

TokidokiBarbie · 07/09/2022 23:09

I once had a leave voter explain it to me as below (paraphrased).

'Which would you prefer? To be married to a rich man and have loads of resources but have to relinquish your independence and have him govern your actions? Or would you prefer to be independent and self sufficient but poorer in the short term?'

Are we really self sufficient when our assets have been sold off to foreign companies and states?

midgetastic · 08/09/2022 07:36

But the EU was much more like being married to a rich person who respected your opinions and usually went along with your preferred approach

Exasperatednow · 08/09/2022 07:40

www.suffolknews.co.uk/bury-st-edmunds/news/hundreds-of-jobs-under-threat-as-proposed-meat-plant-closure-9272641/

It's fascinating that what's happening in many places is a direct consequence of brexit, like this firm, but its never mentioned when it's reported.

And for those who say 'it's happened, move on' Brexit is a process and it's going to keep on happening whilst the ramifications are happening.
The fact it makes some people feel uncomfortable is, quite frankly, tough.

Cervinia · 08/09/2022 07:40

Florelei · 07/09/2022 16:55

I’m on holiday in Spain and we can no longer use our data etc on our phones out here for free like we could before brexit.

so I was just saying today that I couldnt actually identify a single benefit of brexit.

Really? Plusnet & EE have given us roaming as usual in Italy all last week. Everything as it was at home. Free calls, texts and data as though I were at home. Who are you with?

I was a Remainer by the way, so not justifying the change.

Exasperatednow · 08/09/2022 07:42

TokidokiBarbie · 07/09/2022 23:09

I once had a leave voter explain it to me as below (paraphrased).

'Which would you prefer? To be married to a rich man and have loads of resources but have to relinquish your independence and have him govern your actions? Or would you prefer to be independent and self sufficient but poorer in the short term?'

You know this is bollovks right?

The EU is a collective that we cocreated and participated in and like any collective it relied on cooperation. We mostly got what we wanted.

midgetastic · 08/09/2022 07:46

Depending on your plan and where you travel to you may have charges even on EE which you would not have had whilst we were in EU

( just in case anyone read PP and assumes they will be ok )

Abhannmor · 08/09/2022 08:17

Don't knock Arkansas. They recently voted to keep Roe v Wade I think?

Thanks @aliceinshackles ! One of my UK based relatives voted Leave. She never joins in when we discuss it online so I'm not sure if she feels Regrexit. But she recently asked me for help with birth and marriage lines in order to apply for an Irish passport.

I don't really blame people who were conned. Plus the million or two who voted against Cameron and Osborne / Austerity. P
Of course it will have benefits for some people. But there are 70 million people in Britain and they can't all be truck drivers

MintJulia · 08/09/2022 08:46

In political terms, it's only been 5 minutes so won't be judged yet. And for some people, it was a good idea.

Since Brexit, salaries have risen, there is a skills shortage which means some people are finding it easier to get work on their terms.
For plenty of others it's a bad thing, obviously but there will always be winners and losers from any political situation, and the winners are happy.

Plus the people who believe that full sovereignty is a good thing, will always believe that.

UnnecessaryFennel · 08/09/2022 10:15

Piss off.

Aren't you a delight?

'But, but those nasty, nasty Lefty Wemainers are so wuuuuuuuuuude!' Waaaaah!'

Enjoy your Brexit. Hope it brings you all you dreamed of.

greenhousegal · 08/09/2022 10:38

The negatives of Brexit are being neatly camouflaged by world events like pandemics, war in Ukraine, energy crises, and inflation.

If none of the above existed as badly as they are now, then a more honest picture of the effect of Brexit would be evident.

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