So I'm spending the weekend at my DP's house, we were all up late talking in the kitchen. DP was having a conversation with their DM at the table whilst I was on the sofa on my phone feeling pretty tired. I then got up and went to give DP a goodnight kiss and said I was going to bed. (At 3am)
DP comes to bed 10 minutes later saying that it was rude of me to just come to bed and said that their DM thought so too. DP said that I should be expected to stay up until whatever time they decide to go to bed, as it's 'rude to just take yourself off to bed'.
AIBU to think that I am not being rude and that actually to keep someone up until you're all ready for bed is in itself rude and strange behaviour?
AIBU?
To think i'm not being rude to go to bed at 3am
Bluemonkey18 · 04/09/2022 03:20
Am I being unreasonable?
3721 votes. Final results.
POLLBadNomad · 04/09/2022 07:41
Why? It's her house. She probably didn't predict the OP would fuck off without a word to her.
"DPMum, thank you for letting me stay. I'm going to head to bed now."
"No worries, DPGF. Just let me grab my nighty."
Look how simple that is.
Teateaandmoretea · 04/09/2022 07:33
Maybe his mum would have liked to get a change of clothes out of her room before you took over it.
🤣🤣🤣
Maybe she should have done this before 3am 🤷🏻♀️
Bluemonkey18 · 04/09/2022 03:59
Also DP said if they 'were in my house with my family late at night, they would never dream of standing up and only addressing me and say goodnight and go upstairs bcos it would be rude to just excuse thereself and go up to my bed in my mums house, and said that it would feel as though they were treating it as their house.
greystarblanchard · 04/09/2022 08:57
I would have said goodnight to the both of them but you are by no means for excusing yourself at 3am to go to sleep. How strange.
BellePeppa · 04/09/2022 08:31
At 3am? Don’t you think she should have ‘grabbed’ her nightie long before then? And she wouldn’t have said ‘no worries’ as she thought it was rude to go to bed before anyone else anyway.
BadNomad · 04/09/2022 07:41
Why? It's her house. She probably didn't predict the OP would fuck off without a word to her.
"DPMum, thank you for letting me stay. I'm going to head to bed now."
"No worries, DPGF. Just let me grab my nighty."
Look how simple that is.
Teateaandmoretea · 04/09/2022 07:33
Maybe his mum would have liked to get a change of clothes out of her room before you took over it.
🤣🤣🤣
Maybe she should have done this before 3am 🤷🏻♀️
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