Just wanted to get a idea if I’m out of order .
My Dh runs his own business and works long hours normally getting home at 12.30am..
I am a stay at home mum to our child plus my elder child who has sen.
We have a agreement where Dh takes our son to school each morning and I do all pick ups.
He has said as he’s is working so hard at his shop it’s really not fair for him to get up at 8.15am Monday to Friday to do this .. hinting I should do it .
I don’t like school runs but do all pick ups. I also do all the housework / cooking / cleaning / appointments / admin/ planning/ paying bills / taking kids to clubs / activities .. you know the list is endless.
The only things my husband does is this school run and taking the bin out once a week. Nothing else .
some might think as I’m a stay at home mum I should do it but if I do ( I’m already up each morning and all the work of getting the kids ready for school is done , he literally just drives our child ) then he literally does one thing a week - the bin.
I could take my child but I don’t see why I should. I get he works long hours and in the summer holidays he’s been getting up at 10.30am every morning so to have to wake up at 8.15 he isn’t going to like but he doesn’t have to do it during the holidays / half terms and weekend …
Am I wrong ? am I being lazy ?
AIBU?
Expecting HIM to do school run?
Brighton5555 · 02/09/2022 08:36
Am I being unreasonable?
2073 votes. Final results.
POLLSunnyqueen · 02/09/2022 09:28
I've got it - she does only fans whilst the kids are at school😂 poor fucking guy
SleepingStandingUp · 02/09/2022 09:27
Tbh I wouldn't think it really worth being in a relationship with someone who has no interest in seeing his kids or spending any time together awake. You might as well be a single parent and have one less person to look after, esp if you're mostly paying it all as you claim
Meltingsocks · 02/09/2022 09:27
I don't think this post is real...
knittingaddict · 02/09/2022 09:28
You've posted before op, haven't you?
I distinctly remember the person who is a sahm but miraculously claims to be the main financial provider and never says how this is possible.
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