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Told my ex to “go fuck herself”

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Jasong92 · 28/08/2022 23:47

I need some advice/guidance please?

Me and my partner recently split up, everything was going well but social services got involved, told her a load of lies about me and she believes them and left me (I’m awaiting CAB to phone and to take SS to court as they’ve lied about me to my ex so I can clear my name)

Anyway she had unblocked me again today after reblocking me many times and was ready to start talking at first but then each time it got to where she was having a go at me.

I’ve had so much pressure on me this week with that and being emotional and upset losing the women I had a marriage booked with who I love with all my heart, I was upset at her behaviour and told her to “go fuck herself” I instantly regretted it and apologised several times but it wasn’t going enough she said don’t ever contact me again or come to my house I’ll see you in hell and blocked me on everything, my behaviour was bang out of order and I apologised many times straight away, but she didn’t care and says she wants nothing more to do with me but she’s pregnant with our child, have I ruined it and is she gone forever do you think?😞😭

Thank you

Asking on here as women know what things like this mean, thank you all again!

OP posts:
CatsAreCrackers · 31/08/2022 16:15

Jasong92 · 31/08/2022 10:24

I am acting now simply because I can, previously to my recent ex I was in a mentally controlling relationship and was told if I do certain things I’d be kicked out onto the streets, that was one of those things I was told I couldn’t do or i’d find myself on the streets and I have little family around me where I could stay at, now I am alone I can do so. And yes before I got with my recent ex I reported it to SS who said they would investigate it but I heard nothing more, I also informed the police who also told me to report it to SS but that it was nothing to do with them.

It took you SEVENTY ONE replies to come up with your new excuse of "I was in a mentally controlling relationship". Been reading the relationship board and looking for a new angle for sympathy have you? How long was it between leaving that relationship and getting your most recent ex pregnant?

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