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This country is going down the pan isn't it?

213 replies

Sunflowerkeep · 23/08/2022 16:42

Mcdonalds Nottingham was raided by a gang of 50 kids, yes kids just young kids. It was upsetting to watch that. Kids being stabbed, inflation that's going to hit many hard. A corrupt government..any good points? I wish I could leave

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HinchcliffeandMurgatroyd · 23/08/2022 21:27

It feels like a dark spot. Just got to keep buggering on.

Isitsixoclockalready · 23/08/2022 21:27

TokidokiBarbie · 23/08/2022 21:05

Nonsense. The country's been shit under Labour too.

Being a rich country doesn't really help the deficit in people wanting to be coppers/nurses. If anything, it equates to more Ruperts and Jemimas who want to go to a red brick uni and get a highly paid office job.

It's been 12 years since we had a Labour government. That kind of whataboutery is increasingly irrelevant. The argument against the opposition having a go as opposed to this shower is practically non existent.

carefullycourageous · 23/08/2022 21:28

LaFemmeNicola · 23/08/2022 21:25

Or their parents could do their job properly. Blaming the government for shit parenting is ludicrous.

No one is blaming the government for shit parenting.

Are you suggesting that if someone burgles my house I should just tell their mummy - you wouldn't want the Police to inevstigate and prosecute?

Do you apply the same to gun crime - you want that dealt with by parents too?

I want crime tackled properly, couldn't give a fuck about the parents.

EcoCustard · 23/08/2022 21:28

YANBU. It’s been going down the pan for a while now COVID just sped things along and the economic and geopolitical fallout of it too. I live rurally and the fallout of Brexit continues to impact, climate change too. Austerity and the gap in the have’s and have not’s widens but with some of the have’s now realising that their wealth was built on migrant labour and it’s benefits to the local economy. Farmers are suffering with crop yields dwindling from the heat, lack of rain and their lack of land management over the years. Crime on the up, public services dwindling, no NHS dental care and a police service on its knees. Meanwhile our incumbent MP continues with his weekly newspaper column and focus on the woke. The infrastructure continues to crumble after years of lack of investment and those in charge are conspicuous by the lack of absence again.

carefullycourageous · 23/08/2022 21:29

TokidokiBarbie · 23/08/2022 21:24

But what consequences will a bunch of kids face anyway? Certainly not the same as adults.

They should face age-appropriate consequences, rather than nothing. Youth justice is a vital part of protecting society.

You seem very keen for criminal behaviour to be ignored.

Nightlystroll · 23/08/2022 21:29

basilmint · 23/08/2022 21:19

the government isn't responsible for stopping gangs of kids storming McDonald's,

Well they could fund the police properly so there would be more chance of anyone behaving like this facing some real consequences.

I wouldn't worry about no consequences because the police are doing a serious investigation. Not just a common or garden one, but a serious one. What a telling off those mischievous teenagers will get, eh!

carefullycourageous · 23/08/2022 21:31

LaFemmeNicola · 23/08/2022 21:24

Is it the government driving fathers to walk out on their children so often in certain communities? Is it the government bringing up the children who stab each other, or making people get pregnant while they are still at school?

The government is deliberately cutting funds to all sorts of programmes and services that help to prevent these problems.

I don't think anyone sane wants a return to Dickens' Britain where it was a free-for-all with no protection for ordinary citizens.

Personally I want the Police to be there for me if I am burgled, or worse.

Isitsixoclockalready · 23/08/2022 21:32

carefullycourageous · 23/08/2022 21:18

But the government could stop this stuff - it was a political choice to cut 21,000 police officers. If that cut had not been made, far more crimes would be prevented, investigated and prosecuted.

It is a falsehood to say the government could not stop it. It would now take time to recruit - but it could be done.

Absolutely this. It makes me want to tear my hair out when this government has stripped communities of vital resourcing in a failed attempt at reducing the deficit and yet time and time again they get let off the hook. The teflon Tories have done a brilliant job of constantly persuading the public that it's always the fault of everyone but them. I feel like they must laugh at us - can't really blame them.

x2boys · 23/08/2022 21:33

carefullycourageous · 23/08/2022 21:28

No one is blaming the government for shit parenting.

Are you suggesting that if someone burgles my house I should just tell their mummy - you wouldn't want the Police to inevstigate and prosecute?

Do you apply the same to gun crime - you want that dealt with by parents too?

I want crime tackled properly, couldn't give a fuck about the parents.

Yes but these are young teenagers so their parents should know what their kids are up to and actually parent them they are not adults .

LaFemmeNicola · 23/08/2022 21:35

carefullycourageous · 23/08/2022 21:28

No one is blaming the government for shit parenting.

Are you suggesting that if someone burgles my house I should just tell their mummy - you wouldn't want the Police to inevstigate and prosecute?

Do you apply the same to gun crime - you want that dealt with by parents too?

I want crime tackled properly, couldn't give a fuck about the parents.

I don’t want it happening in the first place.

carefullycourageous · 23/08/2022 21:35

x2boys · 23/08/2022 21:33

Yes but these are young teenagers so their parents should know what their kids are up to and actually parent them they are not adults .

Oh, well I am sure if you just tell their parents they 'should' do this that and the other all our crime problems will be solved Hmm

What we bloody should have is law enforcement services to protect people like me from this behaviour. Your way is just you moaning while shit things carry on.

MarshaBradyo · 23/08/2022 21:35

Storming Maccas sounds like a SM related thing, teens don’t need to storm for a Big Mac and fries in todays U.K.

I don’t know what they’ll get but it should be stamped out as staff don’t need that aggro

carefullycourageous · 23/08/2022 21:36

LaFemmeNicola · 23/08/2022 21:35

I don’t want it happening in the first place.

Are you six years old? I want a pony, I want a barbie doll, I want no crime ever.

BunsyGirl · 23/08/2022 21:39

Just read an article that suggests that my work trip to Spain in September could be fucked up because there are planned strikes by Spanish airports staff between September and December…I guess that’s because of Brexit too….

LaFemmeNicola · 23/08/2022 21:41

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TheNefariousOrange · 23/08/2022 21:42

Yup, the week before the summer holidays, the town I work in (very rough area) banned all under 18s from every McDonalds in the area after a certain time.

MongoOnlyPawnInGameOfLife · 23/08/2022 21:43

WhileMyGuitarGentlyWeeps · 23/08/2022 19:57

What is stopping you leaving then?

And what makes you think any other country will be any better?

There's always someone who posts this ridiculous 'if you don't like it why don't you leave' response on every thread that is critical of the UK, as if just upping and leaving is a realistic option for the vast majority people living here. But conversely then, if you don't leave then you obviously lose any moral right to complain about anything.

And not that it matters, but maybe OP doesn't think there is anywhere better. She didn't say it was worse here than anywhere else did she? It being more or less shit in France say, or in Australia doesn't actually affect how shit it currently is here does it? Or how it only seems to be getting worse.

It is certainly varying degrees of shit all over the world though, can't argue with that. Even if people could actually leave, there is nowhere that's going to escape what's coming

Goosygandy · 23/08/2022 21:43

newnamethanks · 23/08/2022 16:50

But some good news. Missing women, Owame Davies, found alive and well according to Guardian newsflash

Thank you! Some good news at last.

carefullycourageous · 23/08/2022 21:43

BunsyGirl · 23/08/2022 21:39

Just read an article that suggests that my work trip to Spain in September could be fucked up because there are planned strikes by Spanish airports staff between September and December…I guess that’s because of Brexit too….

It is over pay and working conditions. Whole air industry is struggling post-COVID.

It is not the case there are no problems elsewhere, some the same as us, some country-specific. The UK issue is that Brexit is an additional problem exacerbating everything else at a time we could do with our economy functioning well, not going even further backwards.

SquirrelSoShiny · 23/08/2022 21:45

I don't know why people persist in denying that Brexit has seriously fucked us. Is it stupidity, Tory bots or just wilful delusion?

carefullycourageous · 23/08/2022 21:48

@LaFemmeNicola But what you are asking for when you say 'I want it not to happen' is just wishful thinking - it is never going to happen.

The government should protect the law abiding majority.

x2boys · 23/08/2022 21:49

SquirrelSoShiny · 23/08/2022 21:45

I don't know why people persist in denying that Brexit has seriously fucked us. Is it stupidity, Tory bots or just wilful delusion?

But Brexit has,nt caused knife crime or kids storming McDonald's has it ,or the senseless killing of the young child in Liverpool has it ?
I doubt the perpetrators of these crimes give a shit about Brexit tbh .

MarshaBradyo · 23/08/2022 21:53

SquirrelSoShiny · 23/08/2022 21:45

I don't know why people persist in denying that Brexit has seriously fucked us. Is it stupidity, Tory bots or just wilful delusion?

It’s not the cause of all ills though

War and pandemic are huge and impacting globally

On here you’d get the impression Brexit is top proportionally, I don’t think so I’d say other two are higher

It’s not something I wanted but people seem to get fixated on the domestic rather than global. Globally the issues are massive. If the war stopped we’d see a big release from some pressures

Livelovebehappy · 23/08/2022 21:54

IAMNOTTHEONE2022 · 23/08/2022 18:26

Blame it on the fuckwits who voted Brexit. Those who were worried about too many people the 'wrong' colour landing on our shores! Ha, that will be the least of their problems with the shot show that has only just started. And, if we carry on getting heatwaves like this, we'll all be the same colour anyway.

And anyone that voted Tory. Blame those assholes, too! Not only is this country and embarrassment but so are half the people in it!!

Blame it on slack lazy parenting. Why else would kids raid macdonalds? Because kids are no longer given boundaries. They’re not called out on bad behaviour at home so this reflects when they’re out of the home. You see it on mumsnet all the time where parents make excuses for their kids bad behaviour. So we reap what we sow….

BunsyGirl · 23/08/2022 21:54

@carefullycourageous I’m fully aware of the reasons for the strike…I work for a multi-national company and the same issues are raised across Europe and beyond; inflation, fuel prices, staffing shortages…Brexit is merely a blip when compared to the carnage that has been caused by Covid and the Ukraine conflict.

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