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CF Have come to stay - The morning after

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SeriouslyLosingTheWill · 19/08/2022 22:33

The first thread is full so I'll start a new one, in case there is a dramatic update in the morning.

I actually feel emotionally drained right now. I keep almost crying. Pathetic. Probably the wine thats doing that.

I'll be going to bed shortly and i'll update tomorrow if theres anything to add. I reckon they will be up early and go quietly though.

They don't drive a ford ranger (I remember that thread! haven't looked at a ford ranger driver the same since!) Its a bmw something or other.

Dp cleared up the kitchen and 1 dc (dd19) came down and helped, so thats all good. She then came out, gave me a little hug and said DP had explained about the food. She then lit up and offered me a cigarette (WTF! I don't smoke and although had an inkling wasn't sure she did) and said no ones perfect, everyone has failings. Honestly i'm in a parallel universe tonight.

Dp has put most of the beers away in the garage, just left in the fridge what was there. I do wonder if they will take them home.

Heres the first one if anyone wants to catch up as not sure I can give a proper summery right now www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/4614982-cf-have-come-to-stay-how-to-handle-it?page=23&reply=119364945

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Meraas · 19/08/2022 22:46

Shamefully placemarking.

Bananarama21 · 19/08/2022 22:47

They got brass neck especially to get all that stuff when it was asked they took the piss thinking it was all on your dime appalling behaviour.. I suspect they will skip off.early quite sheepish but will tell anyone from sundry what terrible hosts you were which isn't the case.

Badfootkk · 19/08/2022 22:47

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notapizzaeater · 19/08/2022 22:47

I really hope they do skulk off in the morning, how rude for everything but especially they wouldn't have bought the steaks if they where paying - so it's alright for you to buy them then !

WTFark · 19/08/2022 22:48

Hope you get a good night's sleep 💕

Rosiestraws · 19/08/2022 22:49

placemarking... well done OP though

Bonjovispjs · 19/08/2022 22:49

Look on the bright side, I think they're unlikely to invite themselves again😆

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Quitelikeacatslife · 19/08/2022 22:50

Absolutely brilliant, I'm so sorry you have had to deal with this OP but I'm so glad you shared with us.
Love the fact that MN has helped you through the situation, much better than thinking of the right thing to say later.
Such brass neck as we would say in Yorkshire.
I so love the thought of them doing a supermarket sweep of the tesco finest range thinking you were paying .
Well done , you are brilliant and so is your DH
Can't wait for more updates.

Mehhhhhhh · 19/08/2022 22:51

shoebag · 19/08/2022 22:38

What does cf stand for

Cheeky Fucker

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 19/08/2022 22:51

I followed your previous thread - you played it beautifully today, @SeriouslyLosingTheWill! By this time tomorrow you’ll have your home back, and they will be a fading memory.

KenAdams · 19/08/2022 22:52

We shall call them Steakzillas

5511551l · 19/08/2022 22:53

You both did brilliantly, I was cheering you on and your DP for backing you up too. Sod what they think. Good riddance!

InTheFridge · 19/08/2022 22:53

Just here for the morning update!

SNkidMarriageCrisis · 19/08/2022 22:53

Just read your first thread and laughed out loud at your dp's "oh, did you need it?" about the receipt 😂. Well done, both of you!

SkirridHill · 19/08/2022 22:54

Just here to point out that if Mr CF used his Clubcard he also scored points on a shop that he fully intended you to pay for.

Steps away quietly

Coolcoolcool · 19/08/2022 22:54

Anyone else secretly hoping they don’t sneak away in the morning and there’s more CF-ery to come?!

ilovesooty · 19/08/2022 22:54

At least you'll never have to see them again.

Lottapianos · 19/08/2022 22:54

You and DH have done so brilliantly, please be proud. Not surprised you're upset, it's horrible having people take the piss out of you and being so nasty

I wouldn't give them a goddamn crumb in the morning. As soon as I saw them, I would say 'you two are out of here - please pack and leave now'. You've been very decent letting them stay tonight. Don't let them treat you like a hotel for another second

Isyesterdaytomorrowtoday · 19/08/2022 22:54

Mortified for them! Hope they have the decency to leave quietly

Youdoyoutoday · 19/08/2022 22:55

So looking forward to the morning update!

whatdodos · 19/08/2022 22:55

I literally cannot believe these people seriously who raised them!? When I staybwith anyone I'm tripping over myself to make sure they absolutely know I'm thankful probably to the point if annoyance. My grandma would be turning in her grave reading this, she once bought us chocolates to thank us for staying at HER house 🤣

Coffeeisnecessary · 19/08/2022 22:55

Bloody hell the gall of some people!! I can't even imagine these cheeky fuckers, well done, sounds like you dealt with it so well.

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 19/08/2022 22:55

Are they Tesco Finest Croissants ? (Blardy nice they are too)

Philandbill · 19/08/2022 22:55

Hope the morning is ok and they go early OP

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