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Bohemian, "lefty" free range middle class parenting really just lazy neglectful parenting jazzed up?

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Naturelover5 · 02/08/2022 16:12

In my three dc's classes we have some of these bohemian, creative lefty parents.. The children are unkempt, scruffy, hair undone & dressed without fail in mismatched clothes... Some of the children have very questionable manners & are either running amock or with their heads glued to screens constantly (as seen on holiday recently, loud obnoxious parents quaffing seccy while the kids were largely ignored).. If council estate kids were dirty, scruffy & looked uncared for social services would be called.. For this particular group (& they are everywhere) the barefoot, scruffy kids are seen as badges of honour..
The lefty parent types are also very anti homework & organised activities outside school as they think kids should be kids however aibu to think they are just lazy & couldn't be arsed putting the effort in?!

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Leopardprintonsie · 04/03/2023 10:20

Plenty of these types in my area!

Florenz · 04/03/2023 10:35

YANBU, bourgeois bohemian parents are the worst.

Leopardprintonsie · 04/03/2023 11:10

@Florenz please elaborate! Haven't come accross those yet🤣

Stilltimeleft · 24/04/2023 22:32

I have had exactly the same experience My (at the time undiagnosed ) daughter from aged 8-14 was mercilessly bullied by peers, and horrifically gym moms who didn’t want their little darlings associated with this odd badly behaved child. It was the most miserable time for all but especially for my beautiful daughter.
reader sue overcame this to become a resilient , caring adult and the best daughter I could hope for. Oh and she is now taking a paralegal apprenticeship with the intention of becoming a fully fledged solicitor . Pride doesn’t even touch how I feel. She is an awesome adult in part , I think, borne out of the horrendous treatment she received - even from teachers- while at school .

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