DH is at home with the 2 DC while I'm at work. DS goes to nursery term time only, as we agreed that it doesn't make sense to pay for childcare while DH is at home with DD anyway.
DH is clearly resenting the loss of his child-free summer holidays, where he would be free to please himself for the whole 6 weeks. I am getting several messages a day about how much the DC are pissing him off and winding him up and how he hates his life. I know what it's like, I have looked after the DC by myself several days a week while I was on mat leave. DH has let them get to him way too much and has worked himself up into an absolute rage. I've been considering going home early today to take over as DH is not handling it well at all.
AIBU to think that DH just needs to suck it up? It's not even for the full 6 weeks as we'll have family help for some of it and will also be going on holiday as a family for a week. I do understand how he feels as he's losing one of the big benefits of being a teacher, but I only have limited holiday and don't get any time off work by myself either.
AIBU?
Teacher DH and childcare in summer holidays
totallybonafido · 27/07/2022 13:51
Tillsforthrills · 04/08/2022 20:07
Teaching is a hard job and he sounds burnt out, agree he should have at least one day off to look forward to.
Orangello · 04/08/2022 21:13
does he ever get annual leave time without childcare?
Is that the norm? I use my holidays to spend time with/take care of children and assumed this was the case for most parents, or does everyone else just take holidays to read books while children are in childcare?
Bubblesandsqueak1 · 04/08/2022 22:38
Tbh I would have put the kids into nursery for 2 days a week over the hols your dh is not being unreasonable teaching is stressful and he has no free time he is around kids 24 7 then on those 2 day he could chill a bit get odd jobs done around the house and just breathe a bit
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