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To enjoy watching them die?

204 replies

PersonaNonGarter · 22/07/2022 19:27

Fly papers - God, but I just love it when they fill up with flies.

The more stuck flies the better.

YABU - and probably a psychopath
YANBU - DIE FLY DIE

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MrsSkylerWhite · 22/07/2022 20:48

Everything has its place in the ecosystem. I don’t know what the position of flies is but I imagine that without them, spiders would rapidly decline and spiders are important for lots of reasons (not least in developing technologies for humankind based on their silk).

so yes, yabu. Personally, I can’t think of a living thing that I would celebrate the passing of.

PurpleFlower1983 · 22/07/2022 20:49

Blackmoggy · 22/07/2022 20:45

Look at you all self righteous over fu*king flies but quite happy to insult and attempt to make a fellow human feel like crap.

Hypocrite.

A fellow human should feel like crap over promoting something like this to their children, sorry but they should. If the truth hurts, tough shit.

maddening · 22/07/2022 20:49

I let them out the window, we need the little bastards so you should let them live.

Yabu

herecomemydemons · 22/07/2022 20:49

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MyDogsTheBestDog · 22/07/2022 20:49

Blackmoggy · 22/07/2022 20:42

Flies can make a person very sick considering they are flying maggots that vomit on food when they land.

My house and food isn't swarming with flying maggot shit flies and I have the windows and garden door open pretty much all day every day. OP must live in a pretty manky, smelly house with loads of food just lying around uncovered to have enough shut coated maggot swarming flies to fill a fly paper ... ! Although I am suspecting this fly paper is outside, you know, where flies actually do play an environmental role

mydogisthebest · 22/07/2022 20:50

Blackmoggy · 22/07/2022 20:40

Are you joking? please tell me you're joking....no one can really be this ridiculous....

Of course those awful fly traps should be illegal.

It's not being ridiculous it's respecting life

MikeWozniaksMoustache · 22/07/2022 20:51

ChinBristles · 22/07/2022 20:38

@MikeWozniaksMoustache should we kill spiders then? To stop them killing flies?

A spider consuming food to survive is not the same as human killing something just because it’s annoying, but you know that. Does bring delivery obtuse make you feel good?

Blackmoggy · 22/07/2022 20:51

CallOnMe · 22/07/2022 20:48

Look at you all self righteous over fuking flies but quite happy to insult and attempt to make a fellow human feel like crap.*

Hypocrite.

If the PP was enjoying a human suffering and dying then yes they’d be a hypocrite but they’re not.

Engage your brain.

This person is belittling a fellow Human over BLUEBOTTLES and insulting someone is attempting to cause pain. Mental pain, but pain all the same.

So yes, they are a hypocrite. ,

CallOnMe · 22/07/2022 20:51

It’s like if I saw a child torturing and mutilating a toy I wouldn’t think ‘ah well it’s just a Ken doll, it doesn’t feel it so it doesn’t matter.’ I’d think ‘what the fuck that’s a bit weird.’

Me too because there is a strong link between enjoying animals suffering and abusing children or women.
They get off on inflicting pain on something that is helpless.

AhaLyn · 22/07/2022 20:52

I don’t like flies that much but I wouldn’t enjoy watching them die. Mildly creepy Confused

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womaninatightspot · 22/07/2022 20:53

I hate flies. We live in the countryside and every time the door opens one or two sneak in. I have bugscreens on the windows to keep them out. I have an electric tennis racquet and quite like seeing them crackle so YANBU

AhaLyn · 22/07/2022 20:53

ugh exiting now.

CallOnMe · 22/07/2022 20:53

Engage your brain.

This person is belittling a fellow Human over BLUEBOTTLES and insulting someone is attempting to cause pain. Mental pain, but pain all the same.

Belittling and killing are completely different things.

Maybe you should engage your brain and pick up a dictionary because they’re two completely different things.

mydogisthebest · 22/07/2022 20:54

Blackmoggy · 22/07/2022 20:45

Look at you all self righteous over fu*king flies but quite happy to insult and attempt to make a fellow human feel like crap.

Hypocrite.

I hope all the sick posters do feel like crap. It's bad enough killing insects but rejoicing in it is awful.

The sooner humans are wiped out the better. It would be quite ironic if aliens came to earth and treated us like some treat insects and just hit us with a mallet or whatever

Blackmoggy · 22/07/2022 20:54

mydogisthebest · 22/07/2022 20:50

Of course those awful fly traps should be illegal.

It's not being ridiculous it's respecting life

I'm sure the maggots and bluebottles that will feast on your corpse respect life.....

Would you respect the life of an African mosquito too....?

You fail at survival of the fittest.

😂

Konfetka · 22/07/2022 20:54

MyDogsTheBestDog · 22/07/2022 20:45

Most slugs actually don't cause damage and eat other slugs. I'm betting dead cert you didn't know that andd kill the wrong ones....

All undesirable/questionable creatures found in the garden become part of my compost bin ecosystem of slugs, snails, centipedes, various beetles, maggots, worms, etc. Wish I could fit pigeons in there.

ChinBristles · 22/07/2022 20:55

@MikeWozniaksMoustache but your argument was not that killing flies is cruel but that it's bad for the ecosystem. So I am asking - should we kill spiders to stop them killing flies? Should we go further and purposefully breed flies?

DaddyPiglet · 22/07/2022 20:55

Albgo · 22/07/2022 20:48

@DaddyPiglet there is evidence that insects do actually feel pain. And even if they don't, it's still a life. Gleefully sniffing theirs out is disgusting.

Nah, they don't. Do you mourn every fly in the world, really? Flies are not going extinct anytime anyway and are pests. Killing insects outdoors or encouraging children I'd deem inappropriate, not feeling satisfied at killing a stupid pest in your house.

onlythreenow · 22/07/2022 20:55

I don't "enjoy" watching anything die. That's sick.

Blackmoggy · 22/07/2022 20:55

mydogisthebest · 22/07/2022 20:54

I hope all the sick posters do feel like crap. It's bad enough killing insects but rejoicing in it is awful.

The sooner humans are wiped out the better. It would be quite ironic if aliens came to earth and treated us like some treat insects and just hit us with a mallet or whatever

Well if you feel that strongly please do go first (you and your fam as I'm sure you're all Human?)

Otherwise stop sounding hypocritical.

GladAllOver · 22/07/2022 20:56

Much better to keep a few spiders in the room. They get rid of the flies and keep nicely fed.

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Blackmoggy · 22/07/2022 20:57

CallOnMe · 22/07/2022 20:53

Engage your brain.

This person is belittling a fellow Human over BLUEBOTTLES and insulting someone is attempting to cause pain. Mental pain, but pain all the same.

Belittling and killing are completely different things.

Maybe you should engage your brain and pick up a dictionary because they’re two completely different things.

Did I say killing? No I said causing pain....

Slow coach.

Tiddlywinkly · 22/07/2022 20:59

I'm not reading the whole thread, but I would never intentionally kill something.

Is the idea that they starve to death? Bloody awful