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Are Tory voters that stupid?

390 replies

StoneofDestiny · 07/07/2022 10:06

Listening to Tory after Tory coming on TV this morning and almost every one has mentioned Jeremy Corbyn as the fear factor in voting Labour at the next election. Seriously - is that the best argument they have got to steer the public disgust at this government's behaviour away from them?

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SleeplessInEngland · 08/07/2022 14:03

A lot of people mistakenly conflating left/liberal/labour on here.

Leftists hate labour at the moment.

MarshaBradyo · 08/07/2022 14:12

It’s easier to use left as it’s a safe bet the posts I’m responding to are not coming from the right, but if they are I’ll accept that

If Labour is hated that’s interesting in itself but we all get to choose (obviously)

GrowlingManchego · 08/07/2022 14:15

MarshaBradyo · 08/07/2022 14:02

And the superiority of ‘they cannot think critically but I can’ is also what I mean.

It’s part of the problem for the left that they think everyone but them can see the issues. It’s part of the reason they lost sections of society - everyone has the right to decide and not be undermined with you’re too thick (or insert other phrase)

You will note that I was careful not to ascribe a lack of critical thinking to people on the left or the right. It can occur across the political spectrum.

Everyone has a right to decide in a democracy , but when those decisions adversely affect other peoples’ lives, it’s reasonable for others to challenge the processes that led to their decision.

Summerwhereareyou · 08/07/2022 14:31

"hoodwinking"

😂

Where has education gone so very wrong!

MarshaBradyo · 08/07/2022 14:31

Everyone has a right to decide in a democracy , but when those decisions adversely affect other peoples’ lives, it’s reasonable for others to challenge the processes that led to their decision.

I agree with the first part but the second is usually just (mostly one side) calling people thick etc so it’s not that constructive

JockTamsonsBairns · 08/07/2022 14:34

siblingrevelryagain · 07/07/2022 12:43

Do you really think Starmer, who spent much of his career prosecuting domestic abusers, is anti-women?

He may not have articulated his stance well enough, as he is a kind man who doesn't want to offend a group of vulnerable people by cruelly stating that, regardless of how they are navigating a tricky situation, they have not and never will be a woman because they may still have a penis.

I am conflicted, confused and struggle with many aspects of the Trans debate, probably because I haven't taken the time to fully educate myself enough to form strong opinions, but the kindness I feel in my heart understands the notion that, should my son decide to identify as a woman, he would still need to be included in prostate cancer screening so shouldn't be filtered out of any group invited. Likewise, I want my daughter to have safe spaces where appropriate.

This is, I think, where we get the clumsy language around 'pregnant people', 'people with a cervix' etc. As with all huge change it takes shifts backwards and forwards to get to a middle ground, but to go after Keir Starmer for not playing into the media's hands by 'making a statement' on whether a woman has a penis is lazy - this becomes the stick to beat him with and serves as a distraction to the fact the Tories are dismantling many of our institutions and guardrails in plain sight

This is the most sensible and thoughtful post on the trans agenda that I have ever read on MN and elsewhere.

Mybestyear · 08/07/2022 14:35

SteamingHind · 07/07/2022 10:11

Ironically, I blame Labour for all this shit.

In 2010, they picked the wrong Miliband. If David had been elected leader, I'm sure they'd have won 2015. No referendum, no Brexit, no Al Johnson and his comedy "Boris" alter ego. None of the shite we all have to deal with now.

@SteamingHind - I said the exact same thing to my husband yesterday. As a lifelong Labour supporter, I am really struggling over who to vote for after Keir’s “womangate” and other gender madness in the party. Saw Angela Rayner on Sky this morning with Kate Burley and thought she came across well but I need to read up more on her.

TooBigForMyBoots · 08/07/2022 14:46

Of course Tory voters will blame Labour. In their wee heads, it couldn't possibly be the fault of 12 years of mismanagement of the country, law breaking and a targeted roll back of women's rights by Conservative policies.🙄

Summerwhereareyou · 08/07/2022 14:52

It feels like Labour only supports the causes they seem worthy

So for instance women are not a minority.

Trans right etc are. So they automatically support them.

It's not just starmer... it goes way back to the pink bus and beyond.

Summerwhereareyou · 08/07/2022 14:53

I also find it odd that anyone not openly trashing Boris is an automatic Tory.

It's so incredibly childish!

GrowlingManchego · 08/07/2022 15:00

MarshaBradyo · 08/07/2022 14:31

Everyone has a right to decide in a democracy , but when those decisions adversely affect other peoples’ lives, it’s reasonable for others to challenge the processes that led to their decision.

I agree with the first part but the second is usually just (mostly one side) calling people thick etc so it’s not that constructive

That’s not what I meant - calling people thick. I think there are wider questions about how well our culture and our education system serves its citizens.

TooBigForMyBoots · 08/07/2022 15:01

@Summerwhereareyou Self ID was a Conserative proposal, part of their GRA reforms. Penny Mordaunt is one of those tipped to be our PM. The Conservative party is the only party with a Trans MP. They're a chaotic mess atm and every last one of them will drag women's carcasses back under the bus for that 1 vote.

Summerwhereareyou · 08/07/2022 15:03

Too big

It's such an important issue and it's complicated I hope groups representing women fully throw this open because it's slowly seeping into peoples consciousness.

TooBigForMyBoots · 08/07/2022 15:21

It sure as fuck is a whole load more complicated than "at least the Tories know what a woman is". I feel sorry for any GC people who held their nose and voted Conservative in Bridgend. They have placed a primed and ticking TRA time bomb into the government.

We may not get to another GE before it goes off.

EdgeOfACoin · 08/07/2022 15:45

And yet TooBig cannot tell us who would be better on this issue and why.

There's just a lot of berating.

SleeplessInEngland · 08/07/2022 15:46

I also find it odd that anyone not openly trashing Boris is an automatic Tory.

Well, I've previously made the distinction that not all tory voters are stupid but all johnson voters are very fucking stupid.

Trouble is it wasn't easy to separate the two priot to partygate, but he was just as bad before that.

SleeplessInEngland · 08/07/2022 15:48

*johnson supporters, that should have said. Obviosuly you vote for your local MP, but there was no shortage of people who actively admired johnson 2019-2021.

TooBigForMyBoots · 08/07/2022 16:04

@EdgeOfACoin I cannot tell you who to vote for in the next GE. I don't know who is standing. I don't know what their policies will be. I don't know exactly how bad a state we will be in by then.

What I can tell you today is the Conservative party is destroying women's rights, as they have been doing for the past 12 years. And right now, there's a TRA ticking time bomb in our government.

I can't tell you who to vote for in 2(?) years, but I can sure as fuck expose the lie that the Conservatives are good for women, or "know what a woman is".

MarshaBradyo · 08/07/2022 16:06

I think there are wider questions about how well our culture and our education system serves its citizens.

I feel pretty lucky with my education and would like to introduce more media criticism, economics and feminism although latter is probably more niche. I don’t think I’m stupid or whatever so it doesn’t impact me but I’m up for more criticism when it comes to the media.

I don’t think anyone else deserves to be called thick though even if they vote differently to me

Blossomtoes · 08/07/2022 16:55

JockTamsonsBairns · 08/07/2022 14:34

This is the most sensible and thoughtful post on the trans agenda that I have ever read on MN and elsewhere.

I completely agree. It’s excellent.

FOJN · 08/07/2022 17:01

Whiskeypowers · 08/07/2022 11:03

I’m not sure what you have read in my
to suggest I voted Labour or that am part of this vitriolic modern left? You’ve made a massive reach there. Think we all know it’s not just hard left voters that have a deep seated mistrust and lack of respect for the Conservative Party.

of course you will always have some elements do rent a mob mentality in politics but with the growing polarisation and disenfranchisement that seems inevitable. Look to the source of that. by necessity and culture the left are more adept at mobilising and articulating their “vitriol” . The traditional conservative right don’t need to don this as they like to consider themselves immune to whatever unfolds as they are successful, relatively wealthy and protected on an individual level. One of the things they did well in 2019 was hoodwink parts of the voting population that that was a club more of them could belong to with Brexit and their vision.

I am simply stating that I think there are a lot of people who made a huge mistake voting Conservatives in 2019 in terms of the consequences of that decision for not only themselves but the country as a whole.

it is all well and good to say what happens in the voting booth is a private matter but the accumulative results of that private matter affect us all. To assert otherwise is ridiculous.

I didn't suggest anything about your voting preferences, I used an example from the last Labour government and made the point that the country wasn't, quite rightly IMO, holding Blair voters to account. Yes I do think you form part of a vitriolic group of authoritarians who think they have a right to demand everyone is accountable to them personally for their voting choice. I didn't vote for the Conservatives is 2019 (never have yet) but have managed not to spend the last two and a half years calling those who did stupid. I have the maturity to understand that not everyone sees the world the way that I do. It's democracy, you don't always get what you want.

You say the Conservatives "hoodwinked" the electorate in 2019, I think they stated what they stood for and people preferred what they were offering. Labour, the only realistically viable alternative, campaigned on a fantasy manifesto and a party riven with division. Their core voter base was sacrificed to identity politics. The day after the election they did not look to see where they had gone wrong, they concentrated on where the electorate had gone wrong: conclusion, voters were stupid. It's really not the way to persuade voters you have any respect for them or their concerns.

Whilst the morals and integrity of Johnson are questionable, to make the understatement of the century, the electorate voted for the party and its policies which they clearly preferred to Labours offering. Some people may think their vote was a mistake and others will be glad it wasn't Labour in charge throughout the pandemic. Why would you assume people votes are a mistake?

The voting booth is indeed a private matter, the accumulative results of every election affect us all, it is not unique to 2019 so unless you are suggesting we ban everyone you consider to be a fool from voting there is always a chance you will be disappointed. Your vote is no more or less important than anyone elses.

GrowlingManchego · 08/07/2022 17:38

I agree @MarshaBradyo

Blossomtoes · 08/07/2022 21:29

Your vote is no more or less important than anyone elses

Actually it is. If you live in a stronghold your vote’s worthless. If you live in a marginal your vote’s incredibly important. Sadly mine’s one of the worthless kind.

TooBigForMyBoots · 08/07/2022 22:12

Mine is completely unimportant. My MP refuses to sit. I have zero say in anything that happens in Westminster.

ChrisReasBathEggs · 08/07/2022 22:29

JockTamsonsBairns · 08/07/2022 14:34

This is the most sensible and thoughtful post on the trans agenda that I have ever read on MN and elsewhere.

Agree with this. Any criticism about Tories is reduced to this debate, which to me, is something that will eventually be resolved somewhere in the middle ground (as best it can be as it is complicated). I haven't got a particular stance either way, but it annoys me when the 'Labour don't know what a woman is' gets put forward for EVERY criticism of the Tories. It is the new 'but Jeremy Corbyn...'

There have been so many law changes proposed lately that impact everyone. There is talk about women's rights being attacked with self-ID, but it is apparently ok for the Tories to attack the rights of all people, including our children's.

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