I have 3 kids oldest is 5 middle one is 3 and youngest is 12 weeks.
I do all the night feeds and then I will do the last feed at 6 and then I will get up. Feed kids get them ready for school & nursery. DH will drop them off and I will stay at home with the baby and clean and tidy. Then around 10:00am I will get back into bed with baby with a cuppa try and nap or just relax. DH will drop DD back from nursery at 12 then he goes back to his office. I will do lunch for me and DD and then we will get back into bed we will then usually all fall asleep.
Then about 1:30 I will get up shower and get babies next feed ready. Then I will stay downstairs for the rest of the day and do dinner etc.
DH will pop in and see me napping or whatever and will accuse me of being lazy and will say"why don't you just up get dressed and take the kids out instead of getting back into bed"
It works for me because if I don't catch up on some sleep I will feel groggy all day. No I don't do much with the kids during the week but we are out every weekend without fail.
Aibu?
AIBU?
Can I ask you if you think I'm lazy?
dhisaknob · 05/07/2022 14:19
Plantlady10 · 05/07/2022 16:08
Also whats wrong with being a bit lazy anyway? Life isnt about making things as hard as possible for yourself. My baby is 6 months old and its not unusual for us to still be in bed at 10am, very rarely up before 9am. I dont see a problem with this!
K8Shrop · 05/07/2022 15:50
When should she catch up on sleep otherwise?
amigreedytowantmore · 05/07/2022 15:44
Well you are spending all morning basically in bed? Seems like a waste of a day to me rather than being lazy?
Plantlady10 · 05/07/2022 16:08
Also whats wrong with being a bit lazy anyway? Life isnt about making things as hard as possible for yourself. My baby is 6 months old and its not unusual for us to still be in bed at 10am, very rarely up before 9am. I dont see a problem with this!
dhisaknob · 05/07/2022 16:29
I think if I stopped doing a huge clean after the kids went to school and nursery I wouldn't be so tired, but then I kind of like it as I don't have to think about cleaning for the rest of the day. I guess as others have said it's not going to last forever so I may as well enjoy it while I can.
I had PND with DD (3 year old) but I wasn't looking after myself and DH was gone from
5 in the morning until 7 at night and I struggled terribly I even started to dislike the kids. Im much happier this time round so I must be doing something right.
dhisaknob · 05/07/2022 16:29
I think if I stopped doing a huge clean after the kids went to school and nursery I wouldn't be so tired, but then I kind of like it as I don't have to think about cleaning for the rest of the day. I guess as others have said it's not going to last forever so I may as well enjoy it while I can.
I had PND with DD (3 year old) but I wasn't looking after myself and DH was gone from
5 in the morning until 7 at night and I struggled terribly I even started to dislike the kids. Im much happier this time round so I must be doing something right.
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