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I know I am. That Dominic Raab wink…

218 replies

User3936493947 · 01/07/2022 17:01

Made me go weak at the knees and I can’t stop thinking about it. Fairly confident I am the only woman in the country who feels like this and I should probably refer myself for some kind of aversion therapy.

Before Wednesday I had the same Raab is a wanker opinions as the rest of you. Sorry, I just needed to tell someone.

<hands round brain bleach>

OP posts:
the80sweregreat · 01/07/2022 20:29

New found respect for Mr Raab!

the80sweregreat · 01/07/2022 20:31

Trouble is though .. he still sticks up for Boris Johnson. I can't really forgive this even if he were to say it in Portuguese on tv with Nick Ross.

Joyfultoes · 01/07/2022 20:32

Ffs so many uneducated people on here. Winking is not in itself a nasty thing to do. Winking at a working class woman making a joke about them doing something ‘high culture’ is.

@User3936493947 you don’t even understand the story but feel you should come on a forum and stand up for men like this.

TheSpottedZebra · 01/07/2022 20:32

A MNer shagged him (pre marriage). She's probably name changed.
I think popbitch re ran the story a few weeks ago, and it was on here YEARS ago Grin
Liz Truss has shagged him too, hasn't she?

Girliegirl83 · 01/07/2022 20:34

She loved it.

Joyfultoes · 01/07/2022 20:38

he’s immensely disliked around Westminster and for good reason….he hates the poor, the disabled, and women generally.

  1. Crass comments on food bank users

During a Victoria Derbyshire show specially themed around the 2017 snap elections, Raab made some seriously offensive remarks about food bank users.

“The typical user of a foodbank is not someone that’s languishing in poverty, it’s someone who has a cash flow problem episodically.”

  1. Even crasser comments about feminists

In a 2011 article for PoliticsHome, Raab suggested that men suffered more discrimination than women, and that perhaps they should “burn their briefs” in similar protest fashion as 70s feminists burnt their bras.

According to Raab:

“Feminists are now amongst the most obnoxious bigots (…) While we have some of the toughest anti-discrimination laws in the world, we are blind to some of the most flagrant discrimination – against men. From the cradle to the grave, men are getting a raw deal. Men work longer hours, die earlier, but retire later than women.”

  1. Thinks the Brits are lazy

In 2012 Raab publish a book about productivity and state debt called Britannia Unchained, together with some of his Conservative colleagues.

In the book, the authors argue that:

“Once they enter the workplace, the British are among the worst idlers in the world. (…) Too many people in Britain prefer a lie-in to hard work.”
Other authors of the book included former international development secretary, Priti Patel, and Chief Secretary to the Treasury, Elizabeth Truss.

  1. And that the NHS crisis is a “childish wish list”

Last year, days before the general election, Raab was confronted by a disabled rights campaigner who cried at him that “people are dying” due to austerity. But instead of responding to her demand for a cash injection in the National Health Service, Raab dismissed the comments as a “childish wish list.”

He added:

“I can think of lots of things that I would like to avoid making difficult decisions on and lots of areas like the health service or schools that I want to put even more money in. But unless you’ve got a strong economy creating the revenue, it’s just a childish wish list.”
Earlier this year, a Buzzfeed piece revealed the then housing minister was also a member of a Facebook group calling for the privatisation of the NHS.

Raab denied any involvement with the group and said he had “mistakenly been linked” to the campaign.

  1. Quotes dodgy figures relating to his own portfolio

This April, Raab was once again making news for all the wrong reasons, when he got involved in a row with UK Statistics Authority after saying that immigration had resulted in soaring house prices.

The housing minister said migration had resulted in a house price rise of “something like 20%” in the last 25 years.

Problem was, the statistics used by Raab were neither public domain, nor was the body he cited them from in existence prior to 2010.

Raab then got a very public telling-off from the head of the statistics watchdog.

Safe to say Raab is no-one’s favourite option after Davis, and some even argue his appointment was a concession from Theresa May to the hard Brexiteers in her back-benches. But remains to be seen if she hasn’t instead brought a ticking bomb into her, already precarious, Cabinet.

TwoBlondes · 01/07/2022 20:39

AlecTrevelyan006 · 01/07/2022 17:33

I'm most intrigued about Rory Stewart and the weird things!

MarshaBradyo · 01/07/2022 20:40

I’ve heard about this wink but can’t bring myself to watch it

might be too cringe

MarshaMelrose · 01/07/2022 20:40

Well no ones perfect, 80s. 😄

the80sweregreat · 01/07/2022 20:41

MarshaMelrose · 01/07/2022 20:40

Well no ones perfect, 80s. 😄

Indeed ! ( certainly not me)

DorritLittle · 01/07/2022 20:41

Yes, even state school educated

State grammar educated.

QueenOfHiraeth · 01/07/2022 20:57

@User3936493947 I, too, am a sinner

User3936493947 · 01/07/2022 21:00

CPL593H · 01/07/2022 19:02

I think OP is Dominic Raab, ensuring a wider audience. Grin

"Damn you Boris, my winking skills will outdo your tousled hair and Latin! They love me on Mumsnet , well apart from the ones who really hate me"

I can assure you, I am not. I’m a much better lawyer, for a start 😉

OP posts:
User3936493947 · 01/07/2022 21:04

Joyfultoes · 01/07/2022 20:32

Ffs so many uneducated people on here. Winking is not in itself a nasty thing to do. Winking at a working class woman making a joke about them doing something ‘high culture’ is.

@User3936493947 you don’t even understand the story but feel you should come on a forum and stand up for men like this.

I can assure you, I understand perfectly well, thank you. If you’d read my OP you’d know that I didn’t come here to defend him; quite he opposite. I’ve made it clear that I find him reprehensible the rest of the time. I just have a thing about winks. It would seem I am not the only one.

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WishILivedInThrushGreen · 01/07/2022 21:05

He was winking at me! I know he was.
At me!!! Really , at me!!!
( sigh)

bedtimealready · 01/07/2022 21:07

OP... I too agree with you.
It was a v. cute wink

TooBigForMyBoots · 01/07/2022 21:12

Girliegirl83 · 01/07/2022 20:34

She loved it.

Where have I heard that before?🤔

dudsville · 01/07/2022 21:14

This? To each their own, of course, but is it this that you're all taking about?

I know I am. That Dominic Raab wink…
TooBigForMyBoots · 01/07/2022 21:15

He also opposes enshrining abortion rights for women.

The guy is a creepy misogynist.🤢

dudsville · 01/07/2022 21:15

Surely at best he's wincing at an abdominal cramp.

HelloCanYouHearMe · 01/07/2022 21:16

I may have fluttered slightly at the wink 😳

Momicrone · 01/07/2022 21:20

So op, you find him reprehensible, don't agree with his politics, but decided to start a thread praising him? very odd

TolkiensFallow · 01/07/2022 21:39

Help me I liked it too.

I also hated and abhorred it.

MurderAtTheBeautyPageant · 01/07/2022 21:40

there was a similar thread when Hancock was caught having that awkward as fuck fumble a few months back. it got some MNers all hot and bothered.

Amazing that so many people are capable of fancying this shower of uggers

FridayiminlovewithRobertSmith · 01/07/2022 21:42

Goodness no 😬

He was a total arsehole. Childish and snobbish and arrogant. And honest to goodness the wink makes me bilious!

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