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I know I am. That Dominic Raab wink…

218 replies

User3936493947 · 01/07/2022 17:01

Made me go weak at the knees and I can’t stop thinking about it. Fairly confident I am the only woman in the country who feels like this and I should probably refer myself for some kind of aversion therapy.

Before Wednesday I had the same Raab is a wanker opinions as the rest of you. Sorry, I just needed to tell someone.

<hands round brain bleach>

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GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 01/07/2022 17:59

I don’t think it’s so very terrible in terms of being patronising etc.

I think AR was fine to call the Tories scum because they are, but that’s by the by.

Its just that Raab is fundamentally unattractive, incompetent and just not cool, and therefore cannot get away with winking in public. Some people can. He can’t.

Momicrone · 01/07/2022 18:00

'He can charm them with the winking'? This wink was purely about power, not charm.

Joyfultoes · 01/07/2022 18:01

I think it’s sad rather than funny that you find a man minimising and denigrating a woman sexy. I’d have a look at your self esteem

MarshaMelrose · 01/07/2022 18:02

Momicrone · 01/07/2022 17:52

Marshelrose, not sure anyone's saying she's sexy for that though?!

Can't speak for anyone else but I definitely don't find the word 'scum' sexy. And I can 100% confirm I don't find AR sexy. And I'm not ashamed to admit it.

However, a wink can be sexy. I can 100% confirm I don't find DR sexy. And I'm not ashamed to admit it.

In this instance the wink made me laugh. Making me laugh is quite sexy so.... oh the tangled web of politics. 😁

They're probably shagging each other! 🥰

Mercurial123 · 01/07/2022 18:02

That's almost as bad as the women in the next office to me having a crush on Ian Duncan Smith 🤢.

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 01/07/2022 18:05

Christ. Like being winked at by fucking Heydrich.

SharpLily · 01/07/2022 18:05

Joyfultoes · 01/07/2022 18:01

I think it’s sad rather than funny that you find a man minimising and denigrating a woman sexy. I’d have a look at your self esteem

I didn't see it as minimising or denigrating anyone.

SnowyLamb · 01/07/2022 18:06

You piqued my interest and I had to look up the footage. No, not at all sexy.

I also don't think it was patronising or a put down though. I think it's 2 people, both pretty good at what they do, enjoying the sparring.

MarshaMelrose · 01/07/2022 18:07

He doesn't appear very bright tbh ... Raaab just seems to be one of those who drifted through Uni

That's right just drifted through Oxford and Cambridge. As you do. No real work necessary to graduate from either of those crummy universities.

MarshaMelrose · 01/07/2022 18:07

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 01/07/2022 18:05

Christ. Like being winked at by fucking Heydrich.

😂😂😂😂

WimpoleHat · 01/07/2022 18:08

I reckon they actually get on pretty well (political differences aside) behind the scenes; I was watching PMQs this week and it struck me that they both rose to the element of vaudeville! And she constantly ribs him on Twitter. The contrast with Johnson and Starmer is obvious; Starmer clearly loathes him.

CPL593H · 01/07/2022 18:09

the80sweregreat · 01/07/2022 17:58

He doesn't appear very bright tbh
For all Boris Johnson's many faults he does come across as well read, can speak other languages and speaks clearly ( most of the time , anyway ) Raaab just seems to be one of those who drifted through Uni , did the minimum and had a bit of a leg up to where he is now ( I've no idea if any of this is true , just how he comes across)
Plus I bet he likes the ladies because he can charm them with the winking.
Bit old skool in that respect. Some might like that kind of thing though.
They seem a bit frightened of AR too.
Not used to the working classes doing ok and embracing a day at the opera obs

This is the impression he gave me but (acc to Wiki) Oxford degree in jurisprudence (and winking) and Cambridge Master of Laws. He won some prize for international law....so clearly fairly academic at least.

Oh God, is he sending out thought waves or putting something in the water? Grin

TimeFlysWhenYoureHavingRum · 01/07/2022 18:09

The man is thick as mince with a nasty streak a mile wide. Doesn't do it for me.

Particularly sickened by the Dep. PM of the "levelling up government" castigating a working class woman for daring to go to the opera (on the invitation of a friend from home who happens to now be a professional violin player working at the theatre).

SnowyLamb · 01/07/2022 18:12

WimpoleHat · 01/07/2022 18:08

I reckon they actually get on pretty well (political differences aside) behind the scenes; I was watching PMQs this week and it struck me that they both rose to the element of vaudeville! And she constantly ribs him on Twitter. The contrast with Johnson and Starmer is obvious; Starmer clearly loathes him.

Yes, it's like one of those court dramas where the opposing lawyers rip other to shreds in court and then go to the pub.

MintyGreenDreams · 01/07/2022 18:12

If anyone over 25 winks at me I go weak at the knees.If mil did it I swear I'd jump her

Momicrone · 01/07/2022 18:13

Sharplily, so what exactly was that wink doing then, given its context?

ILoveAllRainbowsx · 01/07/2022 18:14

minou123 · 01/07/2022 17:13

You need Jesus

😉

As an Arsenal fan, so do we.

How long is it going to take for them to make the announcement?

MarshaMelrose · 01/07/2022 18:15

TimeFlysWhenYoureHavingRum · 01/07/2022 18:09

The man is thick as mince with a nasty streak a mile wide. Doesn't do it for me.

Particularly sickened by the Dep. PM of the "levelling up government" castigating a working class woman for daring to go to the opera (on the invitation of a friend from home who happens to now be a professional violin player working at the theatre).

Hmm. How can he be thick with a degree from Oxford and a Masters from Cambridge? Are those two unis, admittedly with very poor standings of only being 4th and 2nd best in the world, known for offering places to people as thick as mince?

User3936493947 · 01/07/2022 18:15

SharpLily · 01/07/2022 18:05

I didn't see it as minimising or denigrating anyone.

Agree. I don’t feel minimised or degraded by people winking at me and I’m sure Angela Rayner doesn’t either. And my self esteem is fine, thanks @Joyfultoes but it’s kind of you to worry. Tbh I think I would have enjoyed PMQs opposite Raab as much as AR would and not just because he winked at me.

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Momicrone · 01/07/2022 18:17

I think you misunderstand, No-one said winking was degrading or minimising, just that one

the80sweregreat · 01/07/2022 18:19

Oh I'm sure he is intelligent , no doubt about that , but just comes across as if he isn't !
If that makes any sense at all !
Much better read than I am but then he had privileges I could only dream of I suppose.
That's life .

TooBigForMyBoots · 01/07/2022 18:19

Angela Rayner shouldn't have to put up with this shite at work. I should not have to put up with this shite from my government.

We all deserve better from our government!

TerffLonDon · 01/07/2022 18:20

Christ.

TicklishSmile · 01/07/2022 18:25

Oh my God, just watched it preparing to be converted (I also love a sexy wink) but just NO!!!!

Fairyliz · 01/07/2022 18:28

I wouldn’t think AR would find it patronising, she comes across as enjoying the sparring and she can certainly hold her own.
I suspect she likes this back and forward thrust with the Tory posh boys better than talking to worthy KS. Her body language appears to give that impression.