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I know I am. That Dominic Raab wink…

218 replies

User3936493947 · 01/07/2022 17:01

Made me go weak at the knees and I can’t stop thinking about it. Fairly confident I am the only woman in the country who feels like this and I should probably refer myself for some kind of aversion therapy.

Before Wednesday I had the same Raab is a wanker opinions as the rest of you. Sorry, I just needed to tell someone.

<hands round brain bleach>

OP posts:
MarshaMelrose · 01/07/2022 17:37

CalistoNoSolo · 01/07/2022 17:19

How can an action specifically designed to denigrate and humiliate a woman ever be sexy? What he did was pretty despicable as well as childish and stupid. I find none of those traits attractive in the slightest.

I think this is excessive. In the past she's called him scum. Now he's winked at her. Which is more humiliating? And all politicians denigrate (ie criticise unfairly) the opposition. Its the reason they exist.

Piggywaspushed · 01/07/2022 17:37

Are you comparing Dominic Raaaaab to Marlon Brando!!!???

PollenHigh · 01/07/2022 17:38

You might have a point if it wasn’t for the fact that when Dominic Raab speaks I can feel myself falling into a coma.

CPL593H · 01/07/2022 17:39

There is so much help available OP (and a regrettable number of others, it seems) don't be (too) ashamed. You can get past this.😉

thefirstmrsrochester · 01/07/2022 17:40

Heave 🤮

warandpeas · 01/07/2022 17:40

Oh God me too Blush

CPL593H · 01/07/2022 17:40

Piggywaspushed · 01/07/2022 17:37

Are you comparing Dominic Raaaaab to Marlon Brando!!!???

Post of the week!

GolfForBrains · 01/07/2022 17:40

Apparently you are not alone as 17% of responses to the poll currently agree with you. Me, I think you are on glue. The only circumstances in which I would get the hots for Dominic Raab is if I were told it was that or being the next Mrs Boris Johnson.

the80sweregreat · 01/07/2022 17:41

It's not as bad as AR calling tories scum , I will admit that ( that was wrong and out of order ) and I am not a conservative and never have been.
There has to be some standards and nobody is following any much lately , it is depressing

ComfyChairPose · 01/07/2022 17:43

Eeeeoooow
No!

WatchoRulo · 01/07/2022 17:44

Just when you think the world can't get any more crazy.

User3936493947 · 01/07/2022 17:44

Piggywaspushed · 01/07/2022 17:37

Are you comparing Dominic Raaaaab to Marlon Brando!!!???

Not in the slightest. It was just that it put me in mind of how hot Brando’s eye roll was.

OP posts:
Momicrone · 01/07/2022 17:45

So your type is men who put women down?

Redcrayons · 01/07/2022 17:46

Don’t worry, OP. It wasn’t that long ago there was a collective MN Matt Hancock crush.

Raab is quite an objectively good looking man, In my younger days I’d have been all over him like a cheap suit. But he’s a Tory boy knobhead so a firm no from me.

MarshaMelrose · 01/07/2022 17:48

Momicrone · 01/07/2022 17:45

So your type is men who put women down?

He winked at her! She's called him scum in the past. At best it's a draw. At worst she's still owed a smirk. 😅

SharpLily · 01/07/2022 17:48

MarshaMelrose · 01/07/2022 17:37

I think this is excessive. In the past she's called him scum. Now he's winked at her. Which is more humiliating? And all politicians denigrate (ie criticise unfairly) the opposition. Its the reason they exist.

I think she handled it pretty well actually, and I don't actually think it was particularly sexist in this case. The point he was making would have been made the same way to a man or a woman and I think the wink was just indicative of the dynamic between them. It's worth remembering that all the adversarial posturing in the House doesn't necessarily reflect the way politicians of whichever persuasion interact with each other. AR has called the Tories scum but while they're at work on a daily basis I'm pretty sure she has a laugh and a joke with them.

I do agree with you though, OP. Not a Raab fan but the wink worked for me. I can handle a sexist attitude and would feel perfectly comfortable putting him in his place if necessary.

SharpLily · 01/07/2022 17:50

MarshaMelrose · 01/07/2022 17:48

He winked at her! She's called him scum in the past. At best it's a draw. At worst she's still owed a smirk. 😅

This sums it up pretty well.

EternalPoinsettia · 01/07/2022 17:51

I think if you just look objectively at the moment, it was quite sexy! Doesn't mean I like the man, as in Dominic Raab, or what he stands for. And I think it's possible to just appreciate a momentary thing like that without having to give up on your views about politics or sexism!

Momicrone · 01/07/2022 17:52

Marshelrose, not sure anyone's saying she's sexy for that though?!

Momicrone · 01/07/2022 17:53

Eternal, if its meant as a put down, which it was, I can't see how you can possibly find sex appeal in it, unless you like being put down

WatchoRulo · 01/07/2022 17:56

Momicrone · 01/07/2022 17:53

Eternal, if its meant as a put down, which it was, I can't see how you can possibly find sex appeal in it, unless you like being put down

^this. Inexplicable.

CPL593H · 01/07/2022 17:56

It's true enough that there have been some very unlikely friendships and at least personal respect across the political divides. I'm not sure Dom and Ange qualify, but we don't know.

EternalPoinsettia · 01/07/2022 17:57

I don't know, I saw it more as sparring, and she can hold her own

the80sweregreat · 01/07/2022 17:58

He doesn't appear very bright tbh
For all Boris Johnson's many faults he does come across as well read, can speak other languages and speaks clearly ( most of the time , anyway ) Raaab just seems to be one of those who drifted through Uni , did the minimum and had a bit of a leg up to where he is now ( I've no idea if any of this is true , just how he comes across)
Plus I bet he likes the ladies because he can charm them with the winking.
Bit old skool in that respect. Some might like that kind of thing though.
They seem a bit frightened of AR too.
Not used to the working classes doing ok and embracing a day at the opera obs

HinchcliffeandMurgatroyd · 01/07/2022 17:58

Eww dear. Admit yourself somewhere restful.

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