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To get my hair cut like this at 42 years old?

188 replies

BooksnDreams · 27/06/2022 16:45

I really like this cut. But is it a bit “young” for a 42 year old woman? My friend said I am too old for a cut like this.

To get my hair cut like this at 42 years old?
OP posts:
NighghtmareNeighbour · 27/06/2022 17:53

Ncwinc · 27/06/2022 17:49

Anna Wintour says your friend is a dick.

You beat me to it!

StopStartStop · 27/06/2022 17:54

Your friend is... ridiculous.
Try the hairstyle. If it looks good - great. If not, change it later. But don't ask your friend, she knows nothing!

Boxowine · 27/06/2022 17:54

Wow. I literally just watched a documentary on Alexander MacQueen last night and his sister was in it. She has the exact same haircut and I was thinking that's what I want to do with my hair.

She was wearing gorgeous chandelier earrings and looked fantastic. I say do it!

spanieleyes · 27/06/2022 17:55

I have had a full fringe for the past 50 years with hairstyles of different shapes and lengths , I simply can't imagine NOT having one!

Ncwinc · 27/06/2022 17:55

You were probably finding the picture NighghtmareNeighbour Grin

OhTheLeetleHandsAndFeetle · 27/06/2022 17:55

Good lord. Don’t do it, OP. It’s way too dull.

TeapotTitties · 27/06/2022 17:55

It's just a nice and very normal haircut.

Your friend is being weird.

Neu · 27/06/2022 17:56

Pretty much my hair and I'm 52 😂

Vionnet · 27/06/2022 17:57

I was expecting something other than Straight Bob With Graduated Fringe tbh. It's the least offensive hairstyle ever.

Generally speaking, you're 42. Do what the fuck you want with your hair. And at 52. And at 62, etc. You should know by now that no one really gives a shit about anyone else's hair. No one's going to yell "Look at that basic generic bob on a woman who's probably in her early 40's" in the street, are they?

And get better friends. That was crap advice, and probably fairly mean.

Piemam · 27/06/2022 17:58

Your friend can fuck off. Cut it, life is short.

FolornLawn · 27/06/2022 17:58

It's a rather tame bob with a fringe. I thought you were going to post something a bit mad.

DorothyZbornakIsAQueen · 27/06/2022 18:00

Dies she think you should join the cauliflower head brigade!!!

Get it done.

Lagertha6 · 27/06/2022 18:00

No you're nor whatsoever. I'm 38 and have similar one. Tell her to naff off probs jealous. Get it done and get yourself new outfit for nxt time you see her. My mum always used to say if people are jealous of you then give them more reason to be, by dressing up, hair done, make up on. 42 isn't 65. Prime of life.

Everydaydayisaschoolday · 27/06/2022 18:01

It's a normal haircut. Your friend is being weird.

Lagertha6 · 27/06/2022 18:01

Same x

Lagertha6 · 27/06/2022 18:02

Couldn't have said it better x

Iamnotamermaid · 27/06/2022 18:02

The style is absolutely fine - just discuss with your hairdresser that it will suit you and your hair type.

Vionnet · 27/06/2022 18:04

A friend has a similar haircut. When she gets it cut, she usually says 'Oooh wait till you see my hair. I've gone a bit mad!" It always looks exactly the same to me. Bob. Fringe. Sometimes one of those things is a bit shorter.

I don't say that, I just tell her her hair looks nice, because I love her. But all I see is Bob. Fringe. Bob. Fringe. Bob Fringe is everywhere on women in their 30's/40's: wtf is your 'friend' on about?

She's trying to put you down, is what. Quietly clock the fact.

midsomermurderess · 27/06/2022 18:04

A hint of Midwich Cuckoos but apart from that.

catsonahottinroof · 27/06/2022 18:07

I don't see why not - the woman in the photo looks around that age.

TimBoothseyes · 27/06/2022 18:07

I'm in my mid fifties, I have cherry red hair and a pixie cut......I give no fucks as to what other people think. There is nothing wrong with that hairstyle if it's what you want, go for it.

JuneJubilee · 27/06/2022 18:07

I can't see the photo, but I can still tell you that your friend is wrong!!

you can have bunches at 75 if you want to!!

How does your friend have her hair? Poodle style with purple tint?

CloseKnittedSilkPrint · 27/06/2022 18:10

georgarina · 27/06/2022 17:05

Too old at 42??? What is more age appropriate, a white perm?

I just don't get this at all lol.

This made me laugh 😂

I’m over 40 ahem, and have long hair ..go for it OP…

JuneJubilee · 27/06/2022 18:10

@BooksnDreams

i can see it now!

struggling totally with what your friend is on about????

equally struggling to know WHY you'd want your fringe like that. Mine is like that because I have a cows lick & I have to faff with it, to get 'the gap' to close!!! Two minutes later it firings apart again 😂😂

GoodTomatoYield · 27/06/2022 18:11

I'm a bit disappointed - was expecting a pink mohican.
This haircut doesn't look age-specific OP. Go for it

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