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To get my hair cut like this at 42 years old?

188 replies

BooksnDreams · 27/06/2022 16:45

I really like this cut. But is it a bit “young” for a 42 year old woman? My friend said I am too old for a cut like this.

To get my hair cut like this at 42 years old?
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10HailMarys · 27/06/2022 17:17

It's a totally normal haircut that would be fine for any age. Not really sure what your friend's agenda is, but she sounds like a twat.

Justmuddlingalong · 27/06/2022 17:18

Get the haircut. It's hardly outrageous so I don't understand your DFriend's objection. Perhaps don't ask her opinion on everyday things and then you'll stop doubting your ability to make choices.

TheHaka · 27/06/2022 17:29

I’ve never seen this cut, the front looks a right mess. Get it done if you like it though.

Spanielsarepainless · 27/06/2022 17:31

A friend in her early 90s swapped her aging perm for something similar. With her white hair it looked unbelievably stylish. And you will look the same. Ignore your 'friend'.

ifawftfte · 27/06/2022 17:34

Eh??? I've got a friend who is 65 who has a haircut like this.

RedWreck · 27/06/2022 17:36

Just do what you like! It's your hair to do as you wish with no matter what your age

IStandWithMaya · 27/06/2022 17:37

This haircut does not belong to an exclusive age.

Ncwinc · 27/06/2022 17:38

You’re not too old at all. I don’t think you can be ‘too old’ for a haircut. I do think that you need to make sure the hairdresser understands what you want and can do it right. I really like that cut.

mamakoukla · 27/06/2022 17:39

If it suits you, then why not? Too young….. pfffft

JiminyGlick · 27/06/2022 17:39

I can’t see what’s ‘young’ about it?

It’s just a bob. 🤷‍♀️

AnImaginaryCat · 27/06/2022 17:42

Whether you should get a certain haircut or net should only depend on your face and head shape and if it'll suit you. Nothing else.

SmellyWellyWoo · 27/06/2022 17:42

I'm 42 and have brightly coloured hair. I don't doubt a lot on MN would say it makes me common/trying to be young/it's unflattering blah blah blah but I love the way it looks, so that's all that matters! Have your hair now you want- it's your head!

SamphirethePogoingStickerist · 27/06/2022 17:43

That's a haircut. A fairly standard one that suits quite a few people. Your friend is bobbins!

UthredofBattenberg · 27/06/2022 17:43

I'm genuinely confused why this is "too old"? I was expecting some kind of multicolored buzz cut mohawk.certainly not a sensible bob with a fringe 😕

Chikapu · 27/06/2022 17:46

It's just a generically dull bob with a badly cut fringe. What's age got to do with it?

BooksnDreams · 27/06/2022 17:48

She thinks fringes only look nice on younger people. 🤷‍♀️

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Buythebag40 · 27/06/2022 17:48

Eh? It's a pretty bod-standard hairstyle. A long Bob with a graduated fringe?

I thought it was going to be a green Mohican with a cannabis leaf shaved in the back or something!

Buythebag40 · 27/06/2022 17:48

Bog ffs!

Ncwinc · 27/06/2022 17:49

Anna Wintour says your friend is a dick.

Minimalme · 27/06/2022 17:49

I currently have the haircut my Mum wouldn't let me have when I was a teenager.

The beauty of being 48 is I can do whatever I fucking want to, when I want to.

catandcoffee · 27/06/2022 17:50

There is no such thing as an age limit on hairstyles.. your friends are being ridiculous.... go for it.

godmum56 · 27/06/2022 17:50

FabFitFifties · 27/06/2022 17:15

Change your friends as well as your hairstyle.

This your friend is not a friend

alfagirl73 · 27/06/2022 17:51

No such thing as too old - get whatever haircut you please.

NighghtmareNeighbour · 27/06/2022 17:52

BooksnDreams · 27/06/2022 17:48

She thinks fringes only look nice on younger people. 🤷‍♀️

Maybe she’d like to try and tell Anna Wintour that. I mean, what would she know about what looks good…. 🤦‍♀️

To get my hair cut like this at 42 years old?
Carlycat · 27/06/2022 17:52

It's your hair, you can have it anyway you want at any age. Fuck any one else's opinion