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To not understand why the Duke and Duchess of Suffolk only came over for 4 days?

372 replies

UndertheCedartree · 10/06/2022 12:37

I just find this really odd. To fly all that way then only stay 4 days? Surely they had other family to visit, could have made a bit of a holiday of it. I can&t imagine 2 long flights with toddlers that close together - it would be exhausting!

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SabrePrattler · 10/06/2022 12:56

I think Sussex rather than Suffolk is their fiefdom.

Tipsyturvychocolatemonster · 10/06/2022 12:56

Because they’ll be hounded by the press, and whatever they do and say scrutinised

how ironic when they literally sell their soul to the media, selling secrets about the royal family and shit talking for money. They are THE biggest publicity and media hungry hounds there are.

astbdjlutcchjj · 10/06/2022 12:57

All the royals fly long distances for short amounts of time. Flying private jet must make it much easier. Plus no long queues at security or delayed flights.

TooBigForMyBoots · 10/06/2022 13:00

If they'd stayed for 2 weeks, you'd be starting a thread called Why Are The Sussex's Hanging Around When the Jubilee Is over?
😂😂😂

Zippidy123 · 10/06/2022 13:03

They did what they came to do.

I do wonder if they have regrets. They didn't want to leave the RF altogether but they couldn't find a compromise. I think if they'd just given it more time the dust and media frenzy would have settled (as it did with Catherine) but they weren't prepared to sit back and take any of it.

There was absolutely no need for the Oprah interview though and that's what's tipped it for many people. If they'd just left they would still be much lived but their accusations burnt the bridges.

luckylavender · 10/06/2022 13:04

Sussex

2bazookas · 10/06/2022 13:04

Do they have news media where you live?

22N · 10/06/2022 13:04

rwalker · 10/06/2022 12:39

Because they weren't wanted can't be trusted not to quote anything people say to them .

Why so spiteful?

suchasadcliche · 10/06/2022 13:05

They have probably been
Back and forth seeing family the whole time. We are all played by the media.

10HailMarys · 10/06/2022 13:06

Like the rest of the royals, they have nannies and are able to travel by private jet. Really not that arduous.

Also, if you're a multimillionaire you can pop across the Atlantic any time you want. They don't have to worry about making the most of their air fare by combining holidays with family visits. They lived in England for some time, so I don't really see why they'd choose it as a holiday destination.

On a practical note, there are also security issues for them in this country because they no longer have armed police protection like the rest of the royals and private security teams aren't allowed to carry guns and don't have the same powers to deal with incidents that royal protection officers do, so I'd imagine they feel a bit less safe here than they do elsewhere.

SunflowerGardens · 10/06/2022 13:06

I'm sure we'll hear all about it on Netflix/Oprah/in the upcoming book. Can't wait.

Ethelfromnumber73 · 10/06/2022 13:06

Ooooh look, another wide-eyed post to bring out the Megan haterz.

22N · 10/06/2022 13:07

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Ducksinthebath · 10/06/2022 13:07

It’s been widely reported that various royal cousins have been to California to spend time with the Sussexes and they’ve met in other US locations, not to mention the multiple times they could have met under the radar.

EmeraldShamrock1 · 10/06/2022 13:09

how ironic when they literally sell their soul to the media, selling secrets about the royal family and shit talking for money.

That's your perception.

I've no skin in this game IMO they were defending themselves against the leaked stories and gossip stirring from the media.

I've little doubt the comments on skin colour are untrue, the first mixed race DC born into the Royal family of course they discussed it at some point.

Like Meghan said in the interview "I was no-where but everywhere in the media".

Someone was telling the media tales otherwise how did they know about the crying incident? When Meghan was accused in the wrong.

Moosake · 10/06/2022 13:10

Because it was just a short visit? Why does anyone only go anyway where for a short weekend?

EmeraldShamrock1 · 10/06/2022 13:13

@Lindy2 Who's your pal inside the Palace?
You seem to know exactly how they were told? 👀

ImJustMadAboutSaffron · 10/06/2022 13:14

The Duke of Suffolk was executed for treason in 1554. He was the father of Lady Jane Grey.

DietCoke99 · 10/06/2022 13:15

Who the hell are the Duke and Duchess of Suffolk😳

Idontgiveashitanymore · 10/06/2022 13:19

If they’d stayed any longer they would have found more things to moan and bitch about.
good riddance

KarmaComma · 10/06/2022 13:20

They got booed at the ceremony. Why would they stay longer than necessary? They couldn't do right for doing wrong no matter what they did. If they'd not come they'd have been slated for ignoring Harry's granny. They came and got booed and people asked why they bothered and why they were invited. Now you're saying they should have stayed longer. They can't do anything right, so I really hope they just did what they pleased and what suited them.

DietCoke99 · 10/06/2022 13:20

EmeraldShamrock1 · 10/06/2022 13:09

how ironic when they literally sell their soul to the media, selling secrets about the royal family and shit talking for money.

That's your perception.

I've no skin in this game IMO they were defending themselves against the leaked stories and gossip stirring from the media.

I've little doubt the comments on skin colour are untrue, the first mixed race DC born into the Royal family of course they discussed it at some point.

Like Meghan said in the interview "I was no-where but everywhere in the media".

Someone was telling the media tales otherwise how did they know about the crying incident? When Meghan was accused in the wrong.

Well said.

Burgoo · 10/06/2022 13:21

I suspect it didn't go quite as they had hoped and Harry may have found himself realising he has thrown away the connection w the wider family.
Being booed probably made them realise how much they have F'd up.

HorsingAround2022 · 10/06/2022 13:23

Did they not share their travel plans with you? Weird

Port1aCastis · 10/06/2022 13:30

How do you know how long the Duke and Duchess of Sussex stayed who told you have you got inside info or do you just want to be nasty over folks you don't know and have never met......very odd