Just that really. My DC is having a third birthday party which 25 other children will attend. Is it ok to ask that no gifts be given by the other children? My DC will be given a couple of significant presents by me and my DH. I find the flood of gifts for birthdays and Xmas these days completely overwhelming and I don't want it to become the norm for my DC. We already have so much.
AIBU?
AIBU to have a no gift policy for my DC's third birthday?
dillydally24 · 07/06/2022 09:23
Am I being unreasonable?
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POLLJulezz778 · 12/06/2022 13:45
Absolutely not unreasonable! I've had several parties where I requested no gifts. She's 3, she's just going to be excited for a party! I absolutely agree that it's overwhelming for kids with large amounts of gifts. There's also the kids who's parents can't afford to send a gift and then they're left out of the fun, and that's just heartbreaking to me. I have in the past said gifts aren't necessary, but to make a donation to a charity that was selected on behalf of the birthday child (they adore animals, so make a donation to a local animal shelter.) I applaud you for teaching your child there is more importance than materialistic things. She's gonna be an amazing asset to this world. ❤️
Nanny0gg · 18/06/2022 13:07
I assume you decline gifts for your birthday too?
Julezz778 · 12/06/2022 13:45
Absolutely not unreasonable! I've had several parties where I requested no gifts. She's 3, she's just going to be excited for a party! I absolutely agree that it's overwhelming for kids with large amounts of gifts. There's also the kids who's parents can't afford to send a gift and then they're left out of the fun, and that's just heartbreaking to me. I have in the past said gifts aren't necessary, but to make a donation to a charity that was selected on behalf of the birthday child (they adore animals, so make a donation to a local animal shelter.) I applaud you for teaching your child there is more importance than materialistic things. She's gonna be an amazing asset to this world. ❤️
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