I have been to the loo in Mc Donald's and was mid flow when a dad walks in with his daughters aged about 4 and 6.He stands waiting while his daughters are using the toilet. I came out and said you are not supposed to be in here.
He said he had to take his daughters to the loo and I told him that he needed to either wait outside or take them the mens. He said they don't need to see that and I told him that he shouldn't be hanging round in women's toilets for any reason. His sense of entitlement gave me the rage so I told a member of staff. I can only imagine how triggering that could be for some women. Intrusive fucker.
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Dad in women's loo .
HappyDays40 · 04/06/2022 14:02
Am I being unreasonable?
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POLLPutinIsAWarCriminal · 04/06/2022 14:25
At 4 and 6 they are old enough to go to the toilet alone with him waiting at the door. How does he think they cope at school?
Babdoc · 04/06/2022 14:25
When my DC were young, thirty years ago, a dad with young daughters would ask a nearby mother to take his DD into the Ladies, while he waited outside. It was a fairly rare event, as dads then were less likely to be divorced and on their own with a young child, but they wouldn’t have dreamed of intruding in the women’s loos themselves.
AnneElliott · 04/06/2022 14:27
I personally wouldn't have an issue with the dad in this scenario but I understand why some people would. So no, he shouldn't have been in there as some women would have had issues with it.
We do need better family toilets in this country. What I think he should have done (as my dad used to) was wait outside the ladies until a women with kids went in and then asked her to help the 4 year old. I'd have no issue helping a small child use the loo if I was taking mine there already.
jubileetrain · 04/06/2022 14:19
Also the posters who would not be bothered or can't get worked up over it, you are very very lucky to feel so
jubileetrain · 04/06/2022 14:19
Also the posters who would not be bothered or can't get worked up over it, you are very very lucky to feel so
PutinIsAWarCriminal · 04/06/2022 14:25
At 4 and 6 they are old enough to go to the toilet alone with him waiting at the door. How does he think they cope at school?
Furrbabymama87 · 04/06/2022 14:17
It's inappropriate. He couldn't see you on the toilet and it's unlikely anything would have happened but it just makes it OK for random men to start invading women's spaces and where does it end?
mrsfoof · 04/06/2022 14:39
Presumably at school they will only have to worry about other children of a similar age. I'm not sure I'd want my young daughters going to the loo unsupervised in McDonalds where there may be teenagers up to no good or unsavoury women in there. The toilets may be dirty or there might be discarded san pro that would be unhygienic for them to deal with.
It wouldn't personally bother me having a man accompany his girls into the ladies' loos.
PutinIsAWarCriminal · 04/06/2022 14:25
At 4 and 6 they are old enough to go to the toilet alone with him waiting at the door. How does he think they cope at school?
lancsgirl85 · 04/06/2022 14:41
Unless his girls have additional needs, they manage perfectly well in school five days a week.
It's a pretty safe bet that in a school there won't strangers who mean them harm lurking in the loos. With a public place you literally have no idea who could be in there.
JustTheOneSwan · 04/06/2022 14:33
Same.
I wonder why that's no longer an option.
Babdoc · 04/06/2022 14:25
When my DC were young, thirty years ago, a dad with young daughters would ask a nearby mother to take his DD into the Ladies, while he waited outside. It was a fairly rare event, as dads then were less likely to be divorced and on their own with a young child, but they wouldn’t have dreamed of intruding in the women’s loos themselves.
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