I don't know if I'm being overly sensitive or if this is a really shitty thing to do so interested to hear what people think.
I have 2 sons 18m and 3.
SIL has 2 sons 3 and 5.
It's my nephews 4th birthday next week and my mum gave me an invitation today for his party with just my youngest name on. I assumed it was a mistake and text SIL saying invite only says DS2 is that a mistake. She replied and said no, her son chose who he wanted to attend and he only said DS2, I replied and said I felt that was unfair to exclude 1 nephew from the party and she said she didn't think it would matter as he's never interested in playing with them.
For background my DS1 is suspected Autistic, he struggles socially and doesn't often interact with kids his age, but he loves going to see his cousins, he likes watching them play even if he doesn't get involved. There's no issues between them, no fighting/arguing he just keeps his distance, doing his own thing or watches everyone else. He's a happy boy, rarely has tantrums or meltdowns in public.
The party is at their house, in the garden, they have lots of space so numbers isn't an issue.
I don't know if it's just me being overly sensitive and heartbroken for my beautiful boy as I feel this is the start of how he will be treated growing up.
I'm thinking of just not bothering at all.
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lollipoplips · 03/06/2022 21:42
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