let me start this by saying I absolutely LOVE my parents dog - I was still at home when they got her, so I’m not completing detached from her!
Anyway, I’ve just moved into my first home with my partner, we live about 45 minutes away now from both sets of parents (the only affordable place left in our county.) My parents came round to see the house when we first got it, about three weeks ago, and I’ve invited them round to see the progress of it this weekend.
My mum said they want to come, but they’d like to bring the dog. I said they can bring her, but she’s not allowed on the carpet. I have a brand new home, with cream carpet. We have no pets or children, so it will stay clean, because I want it to. For reference, she’s a very hairy, smelly cocker spaniel. I’ve said the dog can come in the kitchen, but apparently that isn’t ok…
Anyway - they don’t want to leave the dog for hours on end, which is completely fair enough. However, they would be gone for four/five hours MAX. Plus, my 30 year old brother lives at home! I got frustrated with my mum and this is verbatim the text she sent: “I don’t want her to be alone. Minimum of 50 mins to you, and back so that leaves a couple of hours max at yours….simple, you come here 😊”
Am I being unreasonable?! Just the way she worded the text, expecting me to drive 50 minutes away because of the dog, even though I have invited them to mine. I don’t mind driving to them, but it’s the principle.
Am I going to spend my whole life only travelling to them because they have a dog? 🤦🏻♀️ Really needed to vent because I’m so angry!
AIBU?
Parents won’t come round without the dog - but I have a brand new house, with a cream carpet
rightonthemoney · 19/05/2022 20:49
Am I being unreasonable?
860 votes. Final results.
POLLLuckySantangelo35 · 19/05/2022 21:03
@User3568975431146
The dog is part of your family and to be honest she's probably pretty far down the ladder of what will happen to your carpet over time.
Like what? What will happen to her carpet over time? Are you assuming OP will have kids? How invested in the patriarchy are you?!
bellac11 · 19/05/2022 21:07
Are you on drugs? What on earth are you on about?
LuckySantangelo35 · 19/05/2022 21:03
@User3568975431146
The dog is part of your family and to be honest she's probably pretty far down the ladder of what will happen to your carpet over time.
Like what? What will happen to her carpet over time? Are you assuming OP will have kids? How invested in the patriarchy are you?!
dummyd · 19/05/2022 21:17
A dog is part of the family, your family. What if your brother had kids,, kids can be smelly and dribbly and messy too, would you ban them from the living room?
It is not the same and children do not smell anywhere near as much as an unwashed dog🤮
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