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I'm on the verge of a breakdown over friend

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Changeymcchangeychange · 18/05/2022 23:15

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Close friends for a very long time. Over the years she has asked many favours of me but its now getting too much. She knows I can't/won't say no to her. I'm a people pleaser, but don't want to be. I just don't have the balls to say no.
I can't list the favours as it's too outting. Shes pushing me to a breakdown. The latest favour requests from her are taking me over the edge and forced me to cancel my day off work. I had nothing planned but that's not the point.
I don't know how I manage this situation.

OP posts:
Thatsnotmygame · 22/05/2022 17:58

I know its easier said than done, but say no, you don’t need to explain why. Ex friend, asked more and more of me, when I said no, she didn't like it

Thatsnotmygame · 22/05/2022 17:59

I know its easier said than done, but say no, you don’t need to explain why. Ex friend, asked more and more of me, when I said no, she didn't like it

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