I saw a post on social media today. It was about two gay men becoming fathers of twins via surrogate. There was a picture of the two men in "DAD" T-shirts. The pregnant surrogate stood in between them with a T-shirt saying "NOT THE MOMMA".
I'm not even against surrogacy perse, but I found this picture offensive.
I understood why she was wearing it - she wanted to display that she doesn't want to have a mothering role in the children's life.
I still think it's a slap in the face of women, we go through so much during pregnancy and labour. Giving birth can be life-threatening, I lost 2.1 litres of blood during my first birth and 1 litre of blood during my second birth.
Many women have postpartum depression after birth and the hormones are on a roller-coaster.
My body will be forever marked by giving birth (stretch marks, C-section scar, mum tum).
To me this picture is just offensive, because it sort of portrays women and our bodies as a commodity.
AIBU?
AIBU?
to be offended by this T-shirt?
parklife1 · 17/05/2022 12:29
Am I being unreasonable?
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NotExactlyHappyToHelp · 17/05/2022 12:34
Isn’t it a famous quote from that funny dinosaur program that was on in the late 80s? The little baby dinosaur said it all the time.
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