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Limebazil · 30/04/2022 16:06

I am seeing a guy the last few weeks we are both early 30s. He seems like a nice guy, and things were going great. Last night we slept together for the first time, it was great he was very generous in bed but after he had gone down on me he said "I think you should drink more water you taste kind of strong". This was really hurtful to me, I'm sure he didn't mean it to be hurtful and maybe I'm overly sensitive but why would you say that when it is widely known that women/ girls are paranoid about how they look/ smell/ taste down there. He's not a gynaecologist so the health advice was not appreciated. He could see he had upset me and tried to back track saying "he didn't mean it like that" and "I'm crazy about you the last thing I want to do is offend you I was just trying to help" but now I'm just seeing it as a red flag. AIBU?

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applecrumbler · 03/05/2022 10:25

How refreshing to see a woman on here put her boundaries in place and then stick to them! Go OP, lots of people commenting that he wasn't BU but listen to your gut and the way he made you feel.

Superhanz · 03/05/2022 13:13

I found this thread very interesting but I applaud the OP for recognising this was a red flag. It sure as hell turned out to be!

It should be a lesson to us all to trust our gut instincts.

Aussiegirl123456 · 03/05/2022 22:26

Absolutely. So refreshing to see a woman have boundaries and trust her instinct. I can’t believe some of the rubbish some women choose to put up with. I can’t believe some women, despite anything else, will always conclude the man is right and we should do X so man is happy. Well done OP, I hope you enjoy your girly holiday

Thisisworsethananticpated · 04/05/2022 00:01

I’ve only read your comments OP
amd then saw his
email

fuck me
what a nasty piece of work
and what a horrible bruising episode

I’m so sorry
not anything else I can say

sorry this thread turned to shit too

sending some good future dates your way

Ddot · 04/05/2022 16:37

Stay safe and just be thankful he showed his true colours early

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