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Settle an argument…(sex related)

148 replies

CrochetCrochet · 30/04/2022 09:55

Please settle an argument DP and I are having.

Would you give a man a blow job who hadn’t had a shower for 2 days?

YABU - yes, of course I would!
YANBU - no chance!

OP posts:
Handyweatherstation · 30/04/2022 10:15

Showering daily isn't great for skin or the environment really

That may be so but it doesn't mean he gets to put his dirty cock in her mouth.

miltonj · 30/04/2022 10:17

Travis1 · 30/04/2022 10:04

Do people actually police when their partner showers? 😵‍💫

No. There's a difference between policing and sucking cock.

Topgub · 30/04/2022 10:20

Handyweatherstation · 30/04/2022 10:15

Showering daily isn't great for skin or the environment really

That may be so but it doesn't mean he gets to put his dirty cock in her mouth.

No, definitely not.

No one gets to put any cock near any mouth that doesn't want it.

I was just replying to the idea that not showering for 2 days is disgusting. Its not.

Handyweatherstation · 30/04/2022 10:24

@Topgub I agree with you.

lassof · 30/04/2022 10:30

Not bothered about the shower part, but I would always expect a clean, well-washed cock. It's just basic hygiene.

Lou98 · 30/04/2022 10:38

YANBU - I wouldn't if it had been two days. My

Partner won't let me near him unless he's showered though, he says he just doesn't enjoy it as much worrying about being unclean. He'll always prefer to have a shower first.
Which I can understand as I wouldn't let him give me oral without showering first either

BiscoffAnythingIsTheWayForward · 30/04/2022 10:42

As above…I wouldn’t even let my DH near me downstairs or me for him for a BJ without a shower first. Is your partner seriously saying they think it’s ok to sweat and fester for 2 days and then expect a BJ? That’s honestly vile.

ImTheFuckOffCar · 30/04/2022 10:42

No chance.

HeArInGhandsgirl11 · 30/04/2022 10:46

No no no

runnerblade95 · 30/04/2022 10:47

Absolutely not! Urine, lint from the underwear and sweat. No thanks. I’ll pass. You are definitely not being unreasonable!

Shodan · 30/04/2022 10:47

Nope.

And DP wouldn't let it happen anyway. Only if recently washed.

First XH thought it was fine to present me with an unwashed penis and expect me to put it in my mouth. Still makes me shudder- the smell, the...stuff . Bleugh.

Dirty bugger.

BlimBosh · 30/04/2022 10:57

Hell no.

tootiredtoocare · 30/04/2022 10:59

Nope, and I don't mind giving bj. However, I do expect cleanliness.

kimfox · 30/04/2022 11:00

Absolutely not.

BrylcreamBeret · 30/04/2022 11:01

The 4% who seem to enjoy an unwashed scrotum ... have a word with yourselves.

ILoveAllRainbowsx · 30/04/2022 11:01

I only do it straight after a shower.

TheRossatron · 30/04/2022 11:04

I find this thread hard to swallow 😃

Silversprinkles · 30/04/2022 11:04

LoveSpringDaffs · 30/04/2022 10:08

@CrochetCrochet

tell him it makes NO difference what any other woman would do. If HE wants a BJ from you, he needs to do what YOU tell him is necessary. Or he goes without. Tell him he's free to fuck off & find a woman willing to oblige on an unshowered cock.

This.

Dufton · 30/04/2022 11:10

No way. My DP will at least wash his willy if he thinks a blow job may be on the cards, even if he's showered that day already.

MummyofTw0 · 30/04/2022 11:11

No frigging way

Superhanz · 30/04/2022 11:11

Ewwww. No chance. Fresh from the shower only.

Namechange20222 · 30/04/2022 11:12

No chance

LidlMissSunshine · 30/04/2022 11:13

Would he go down on vag that hadn’t been washed for two days??

Schmz · 30/04/2022 11:13

Think about how many times that Willy has been dangled down the toilet over the course of 2 days !!! Not appetising !

Toponeniceone · 30/04/2022 11:14

Not even circumcised, no.