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QuestionableMouse · 25/04/2022 11:57

Have a MA graduation ceremony coming up. It finishes at 2:15. I usually do school pick ups for my sister which are at 2:35. The uni campus is over an hour away so no chance of being back in time. My sister has just started a new job and can't take time off (it's a very full on role and she's currently training, with no chance to make up the day if she misses it.) Her ex-partner has flat out refused to take any time off. (he's a huge knob in multiple ways!)

No grandparents on their dad's side. My mum and dad are attending with me. (I'm the first person in my family to graduate, let alone do a MA so it's very important to them.)

There's no after school club and the school have been unhelpful. No other family who can help (one auntie who is childless and wouldn't cope with two kids, the other has just had a hip op). Looking at childminders but they're all horribly expensive and tbh none of us can really afford the cost.

The best solution I can come up with is to take them with me to the ceremony. They're great kids (4 & 6) and I trust them to behave but I'm not sure if they'll be allowed in? Have emailed the uni but no response yet! What the hell do I do?

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QuestionableMouse · 12/05/2022 00:14

Sorry! Haven't been able to update cause of the damn cookie problem. 😡

Day was fantastic - we did end up taking them with us (with permission from the school) and it was absolutely fine. The uni even had a little area at the back for people with kids.

Not really sure why I was stressing so much!

Sister found a wonderful childminder so no more worries about school pick ups.

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MyrtlethePurpleTurtle · 12/05/2022 10:31

Wins all round - glad you had a wonderful day

TheRussianDoll · 15/05/2022 07:06

That all sounds lovely.

Congratulations!

QuestionableMouse · 15/05/2022 18:38

Thank you 😁

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