I'm going to Lisbon for a long weekend in July, meeting up with two great friends I haven't seen for about 4 years; one lives in LA, the other is in Dublin (I'm in London). We booked a villa with four double bedrooms to accommodate LA friend and her husband, their friends (another couple) who I've met a few times and are lovely, then Dublin friend and me would each have our own rooms.
LA friend has just announced that she's invited another couple, hope that's OK with everyone. And possibly some other friend might sleep on the sofa bed for two nights?! This now means me and Dublin friend will be sharing a queen size bed. Now I adore Dublin friend but I'm 35 and want my own bed. Also she's 6'2, snores loads, and is always the one last to bed drunk, and freakishly early to rise. I'm a loser and like my sleep 😄. I'm thinking of suggesting to book my own place, but think this might go down badly. Something similar happened with another group of friends years ago on a trip to New York - they had people sleeping on the floor in a grotty, overpriced Airbnb with rats, while I stayed in a really nice, new hostel with private rooms. They were all a bit offended and caused some bad feeling.
AIBU?
To want my own bed on holiday
littlepieces · 23/04/2022 14:16
Am I being unreasonable?
2216 votes. Final results.
POLLlittlepieces · 23/04/2022 14:23
I think LA friend's thinking is that the more the merrier... and works out cheaper for everyone. So doesn't see any problem.
Oblomov22 · 23/04/2022 15:04
Text immediately. "Where are they going to sleep? There aren't enough bedrooms. "
Then she'll have to reply 'oh I thought they could just bump in with you', to which you can reply, no, I need my own room.
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