DSS is 18 in May.he lives with us full time and doesn't see his mum.
He is at College and doing A-levels. He has for the last two years been 'bulking' and eating an insane amount of food. 3 massive meals plus 3 bowls of pasta and chicken and rice - all paid for by me and DH. He also take various protein powder and pre work out powders again all paid for by us. He also drinks a 4 pint bottle of whole milk a day.
He doesn't have a job and goes to college 2.5 days a week.
He is v v v lazy and I am absolutely sick of it.
DH has started a new job this week and got home very late the past three nights. Obviously not DSS fault but DSS is only too quick to accept the fruits of our labour. £220 a month allowance plus phone and gym membership paid for and £70 a week for a tutor for him.
Today I have snapped and lost my shit
His one job is to walk the dogs one day a week on a Wednesday. I get home from work at 3 pm so we said to walk them at about 11 to break the day up etc.
I ended up wfh today and the lazy sod didn't get out of bed until 11. He then fucked around making his various food for a 1.5 hrs and the said he didn't have time to walk the dogs and said they can run around the garden
I am soooo fuming with him
He is indulged and spoilt. I have said I'm not giving him any more lifts and he can do his own washing.
Dh says I'm being a bit mean re the washing. I don't think I am.
I also think the allowance should stop.
He did walk the dogs at 3 but it defeats the object.
I've told DH he can do the washing but then that has caused a row between us.
AIBU?