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To ask WWYD - if your partner came out as bisexual

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NotSureWhatToDoHelp · 04/03/2022 12:08

Name change for obvious reasons

I just want to know what you would do if..

  • you are male
  • You had been in a (straight) relationship since you were 17
  • you are now 25 and have a home and pets with your girlfriend, and are getting married this year
  • your girlfriend told you she loved you and you're her soul mate and wants to be with you and continue in the relationship, but thinks she is bisexual??

Basically doesn't want to end the relationship is super happy and everything but just feels like in the last couple of years have realised they are bisexual - and feels like they have to at least tell their future husband or it's like hiding a part of you???

(Yes suprise suprise I am the girlfriend)

I don't know whether to tell my partner or not basically because it won't actually change anything? I just feel like I'm hiding something but like am I ??? Is it ok to not say anything??

My boyfriend is absolutely not homophobic in any way , we aren't religious or anything etc

Thoughts please

OP posts:
georama · 06/03/2022 12:01

I'd also be worried about whether he'd be happy to be monogamous with me and never be able to experience being with another man if he felt attracted to men

and you wonder why people are hesitant to come put as bisexual when people come out with shite like this

ChocolateIsAlwaysTheAnswer · 06/03/2022 14:18

@Rosieposie101 Everything I wanted to say but never could as perfectly as this.

bubblesbubbles11 · 06/03/2022 16:15

+1 for @Rosieposie101

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